Why I don’t have a boyfriend? I feel like I’m less attractive because I’m black and most of them are jerk with me?

[Anonymous]

[Rosexøxø]

Biracial couples are a thing 👐👀

There’s even a famous couple on Instagram and snap that is a black lady and white guy. They’re cute together too.

I actually tried to find them, and remembered another one, but I don’t remember their names and couldn’t find them. Apparently, there are many other ones than I thought?

So that’s even better in your case? 👀

I also know there have been some guys who checked out my black sister or black friends- WHILE I WAS WITH THEM, and paid 0 attention to me, even if something I had was exceptional that time. Maybe I had just got my brows done or dyed my hair. New pair of shoes or a new nice fit? Lol

So don’t even sweat it. Some guys do PREFER BLACK WOMEN. I’m telling youuuu 😄👐.

I do know that a lot of guys in America, who’s parents are from other middle Eastern, and Asian countries and any country that is not white Europe, will have a special thing for black ladies. So maybe higher chances with those guys, but you know they have that style thang lol 😂 but white guys aren’t off limits either because I mentioned the biracial couples in insta and all of that.

Just don’t rush it. The dating nowadays isn’t as mainstream as it was back in the day, and in school- young boys don’t always date because they’re too shy, and not even serious.

Seriosuly Sis, don’t sweat it. 👐

[Rosexøxø]

Just be confident. Be you!

[Anonymous]

There’s so little info to go on… could it be a racial thing? Maybe. But maybe not. I’d guess probably not as much as you might think, but again, who knows?


I have been interested in plenty of black women. I’m sure sometimes trying to date has failed because some only want to date black guys… but I’m sure it’s usually been similar issues to whatever keeps other women from being interested in me. Being too short. Too geeky. Not pulling in 60k a year. Too “ugly.” Too shy. Whatever.


Without knowing you at all, I wouldn’t even be able to give you any opinion as to why it’s not working at the moment. Could be anything, Maybe it’s something not even related to anything “you’re doing.” Like maybe it’s not even much to do with you.


Only advice right now is… try to wait it out a little more? I know that’s tough for some (hell, it is for me!) but… I don’t know… just keep working on you and maybe eventually some guys will get a clue.

[Pohjolan]

Nah there is some other undelying issue here.

Are you sleeping enough?

Are you eating healthy?

Do you work out?

Do you need to see a dermatologist?

Are you just wallflowering?

[EricJonesAB]

Keep trying, there's a lot of people out there.

[Anonymous]

When a woman can't get a boyfriend it invariably comes down 2 2 things 1. Her standards/expectations are way to high.

2. She is self absorbed/wants love, but doesn't want to put forth anything/narcissistic.

Which one are you?

[Farmerboy2]

Maybe it’s you.