What am I doing wrong? I’m a virgin at 32M but I’ve tried a lot for 3 years?

[Anonymous]

For what it's worth I usually date 4 years in my age range (mainly because I want to have kids one day and with women older than 36 that'll be hard).

Last year I asked out roughly 30 women irl. All of them rejected me and one reported me to HR and I got in a lot of trouble. I've been banned from bars for "shooting my shot too many times" (manager's exact words even though it was only 6) and tinder has been useless.

like I said, I recently got fired due to flirting with coworkers. And I’m banned from most bars around me. And my Tinder stats are shockingly bad (like, unheard of levels).

It's literally JUST inexperience that's the issue. Almost every woman I've met has picked up on my inexperience and said they don't want to be my teacher.

The years before, I've been rejected about ten times each so not as much as 2024, but it's still a lot.

I’ve tried joining a D&D group even though I despise gaming. Seriously, I hate it.

What else can I do to find a life partner?

[Lliam]

Have you ever tried just talking to women and having a conversation without discussing sexuality or coming off desperate for marriage and kids.

Whatever you are doing, it's wrong. I mean, women don't report guys for harassment unless the guys are actually creepy.

Be friendly. Treat women as people, not targets.

[Anonymous]

Yep this year's the 20th anniversary of that Infamous movie with Steve Carell and it's quite obvious as to why the title character was a guy male because that movie was meant to reflect the sad cruel reality that remaining celibate later than normal is typically a male issue

[alice55]

How do you even flirt to get banned from bar? Why do you tru Sith so many women instead of just trying with one? Yousurely come off too strong

[Anonymous]

Tinder, a D&D group?

You must want to be single forever.

[Asker]

I don’t even like games lol.

Just tried to force it