From your perspective why do you think so many people have commitment issues when it comes to dating?

[megzs16]

What's your perspective and experience with this? I'll admit I have commitment issues. For me, I think I have a fear of getting hurt or losing my sense of self in a serious relationship. I know I'm not the only one scared to commit , it's a very common thing these days, but I was just curious about how others view it?

[OlderAndWiser]

Your generation has spent most of your existence in the digital world, instead of the real world, and I suspect that for many of you, having a relationship is the equivalent of moving, alone to a foreign country and you don't speak the language.

[WonderingManII]

I think what you said. "For me, I think I have a fear of getting hurt or losing my sense of self in a serious relationship." Is true of about anyone. It's hard to trust people because people lie, and some people are really mean.

[Nikki1989]

Driven by media, some people have unrealistic expectations of what a committed relationship should be like. They are doomed to fail from the outset.

[jahaims]

They are immature. They lack honest introspective so they can't heal trauma.

[Pterodon]

No such thing. When they meet Mr or Miss Right those issues suddenly disappear

[Still-alive]

my thing is i just wanna find someone im super compatible with so if im ultimately not getting that then yeah i struggle committing

[Paige90]

They haven't grown up

[Bklynbadboy12]

Most are afraid of getting hurt!