Was I right to tell my friend off for seeing another guy behind her guy friend’s back?

[Anonymous]

Now my friend has a guy friend that is madly in love with her. I mean he is crazy about her! She knows he’s in love with her. I TOLD her get in love with her but she never believed me. She kept telling me they’re just friends but that’s not what I heard. Even some of our friends know he’s in love with her. After all the bad dates and horrible boyfriends she had (mostly the jocks and good looking men) she decided to give him a chance. Like FINALLY!
He may not be the best looking guy but he has a big heart, cares for her, honest, kind and he tries to impress her.

Anyways she agreed to go on a date this Wednesday night as she told me he asked her out for the 100th time. He asked her last week and she finally gave in. Man, he was super happy. I’ve never seen him there any other girl at all. He went to the dance with another girl one time, but he kept looking at my friend. What really made me mad is that she told me she met a guy at her cousins birthday party and they started talking and I exchange numbers and started to talk and he asked her out on a date this Saturday and she agreed to it, but I reminded her that she can’t do that because she’s going on a date with her guy friend REMEMBER? She was like oh yeah well with her guy friend, it’s just a friend outing. but she really likes the other guy. I cannot believe her. I told her off that every time a guy that shows a lot of interest and so sweet and genuine like him. She always screws it up. Her girlfriend is so happy to go out with her but she’s gonna break his heart if he finds out she’s going on a date with another guy. I told her that she is playing with her friend’s feelings, getting his hopes up way too much and going to break his heart. I told her he’s gonna be really hurt when he finds out you’re seeing another guy and not only that the other guys going to be her about her going out with her guy friend too. I told her I hope she’s happy about what she’s doing. I told her she’s being a bitch. Am I wrong?

Updates

10 mo

She knew what he asked her if she’s gonna go and wanted me another guy and agreed to go on a date with him on Saturday when she’s going on a date with her guy friend. She’s a two timer. I know they’re not a couple, but she knows the boys madly in love with her. She’s very lucky to have a man like that in her life.

[Staximus]

The guy might be a great guy, but if she's not attracted to him then there's nothing you can do to sell her on him. She obviously doesn't like the way he looks or being treated the way he treats her. She sounds like one of those girls that likes guys that treat her like shit. You should just tell the guy to forget about dating her. She's never going to appreciate him until she has a couple kids with a couple different douchebags, and then when she's in her 40's she realizes that Mr Dependable was the guy she should have married 20 years ago.

[Asker]

Every time she meets a seeet kind man or her guy friend always impresses her, she screws it up. She ALWAYS screw things with a good man that treats her like a queen. I scolded her off she always friendzones the good men and always chases after men that dont like her

[Anonymous]

You're 100 percent right, but that's the way most women are nowadays, selfish and heartless.

[Asker]

That’s how she’s acting right now. She got defensive when I told her. We’ll she needed to hear that. She agreed to go on a date with her guy friend and all of a sudden she meets a new guy and going out with him on Saturday. I told her her guy friend is going to be really hurt when she tells him or when he finds out. Poor guys heart will be shattered.

[DishLady]

The language is confusing, but if they're all just friends then there's no reason you told her off.

[Nikki1989]

Yes, from a moral and ethical perspective at least.

[Anonymous]

Her wish. The dude is ugly so can’t do anything

[MasterKS]

why you care on their personal life.

[Asker]

It’s not that. I care because she’s hurting his feelings. She agreed to go on a date with her guy friend

[MasterKS]

@asker so you can go with him, strange to know you caring others life more.

[Asker]

No I’m not going out with him! He’s in love with her but he hasn’t really done much but I know he’s trying to impress her.
She should not be going on a date with another guy on Saturday if she’s going on a date with her guy friend this Wednesday. He will be HEARTBROKEN

[MasterKS]

@asker isn't it her choice? if she is not going with him why dont you go if you care him so much?