Is it possible to sue a man for emotional distress after briefly talking and a date?

[Anonymous]

Is it possible to sue a man for emotional distress if he knowingly targeted me while I was emotionally unstable, displayed coercive and predatory behavior, and used my vulnerability to manipulate me — all while hiding that he was married?

[DishLady]

No, unless you were institutionalized after the one date/interaction.

If you knew you were emotionally unstable you should have refrained from being in a place where you'd be picked up.

[PeachyPie93]

No.. lol..
Why are so obsessed? Did you sleep with him? Even if you did sure it hurts to get used but get over it, it happens everyday to guys and girls.. Who gets this obsessed when there was only brief talks and a coffee date? Move the fuck on, get help and let it go or you will never ever find a guy willing to date your crazy ass LOL..

[genericname85]

you should probably see a therapist rather than trying to go through crazy length to get revenge fo a very minor thing. and no you most likely don't have grounds to sue there anyway. just move on. you feeling bad isn't something you can sue someone for cause your feelings are your responsibility, not someone elses.

[ohsheeT]

I wouldvsay and your still out of control. You have a feet you could have left any time. Sorry if this seems cold but you have to be kidding me..

[exitseven]

Good luck finding a lawyer to take the case

[HollyK21]

She definitely won’t lol it was 1 coffee date after 1 week of talking. They met on a dating app, she put in her bio “placeholder until you find what you want”. He gave her the closure of a phonecall ending things after she called harassing and cussing him out. This woman is so far from innocent.

[HollyK21]

Not to mention he’s already threatened to sue her! Lol and said he’s compiling a file of all her continued harassment and if she doesn’t stop he’ll take legal action💀

[Asker]

@HollyK21 you weren’t there and I don’t mind admitting my faults. Yes he knew I was unstable and he used that against me to try and get what he wanted. He’s a liar and manipulative

[Asker]

Is it possible to sue a man for emotional distress after briefly talking and a date? It’s been 2 years since we last spoke and I have been suffering ever since. When we stopped talking I was trying to make it through but I became more and more depressed… I am a teacher… I stopped my basic hygiene… made it late to work, underperformed…

I went to therapy for months and it wasn’t helping… I then went to a psychiatrist to get medicated for mood / depression….

I ended up showing psychotic tendencies by harassing him and trying to ruin his life by letting people know he was a predator and a user… I did that to the point I got a police warning

I was off my job on fmla for 5 months and I was in the psyc ward twice and an intensive therapy program

I just feel like he knew I was unstable and he said it and he continued to talk to me and made it seem like he could love me and he ended up disrespecting me and doing the opposite

[HollyK21]

You’re ridiculous, delusional, and wouldn’t win this case. You’ve harassed, stalked, and obsessed over this man for nearly two years without any sort of communication with him. You are diagnosed OCD and put it on full display with how out of touch with reality you are. Go back to therapy, you need help.

[HollyK21]

He didn’t know you from the back of his hand, let alone knowing you were this fcking unstable. You act like those few days of communication he should’ve known everything about you. You act like you are a scorned ex it’s weird as shit. Stop that.

[Asker]

@HollyK21 yes he did because he wouldn’t have said it!

[Asker]

@HollyK21 this has nothing to do with you. If you don’t agree move along

[HollyK21]

If you’re gonna tell the story tell the whole thing, stop pity farming excluding the parts that you KNOW will make you look crazy as fuck. I have every right to speak on you slandering and endangering someone else. I have every right to inform people of all the facts so they can properly form their opinions. Don’t like it? Block me.

[Asker]

@HollyK21 I told all my parts up above. I said I displayed psychotic symptoms after the fact by harassing him

[HollyK21]

Did you mention ANY of that in your original post? Nope! You specifically used victimizing verbiage to tell the bits and pieces that would garner sympathy. People deserve to know what they’re walking into before they even try offering your ass any kind of help.

[HollyK21]

Please, you’ve been psychotic your whole life he just made you aware of it.

[Asker]

@HollyK21 bye Holly

[Asker]

I swear you said don’t ever contact me so who tf are you? I don’t talk to strangers boo ✌️

[HollyK21]

@exitseven don’t waste your time. She has no intention of letting go of this man or this conversation. Just pray for his safety, she’s even talked about going to his house and harming a woman she “thinks” could be his wife. Scary, troubling shit.

[HollyK21]

I didn’t contact you though did I Chels? Nope, I commented to someone else, which I plan on doing each time I see these fucking posts. They deserve to know you’re actually the problem and to not waste their time.

[Asker]

@HollyK21 no I have never said that I want to hurt anyone and I didn’t mean I want to go to his house. That woman is his wife

You just don’t want to mind your fucking business. Chill the fuck out before I find you next. I mean it.

[HollyK21]

LOL oh you wanna threaten my life? Let me go ahead and SS that comment.

[HollyK21]

I’ll tell you this, trying to deal with me you won’t find anything but MORE problems. YOU chill the fuck out, go find something safe to do because this is NOT it.

[Asker]

@HollyK21 and I’m going to SS me telling you to leave me alone and stop commenting. You keep fucking bothering me. It’s annoying asf. He’s not paying you!!!

[HollyK21]

Don’t care. Grow up you big fucking baby.

[Asker]

@HollyK21 🍼🍼🍼🍼🍼🍼

[Asker]

@HollyK21 go fuck your invisible man you’re “engaged “ to. It’s been 2 years or more with no wedding 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 it’s okay holly. I know that’s what you’re actually mad about.

[HollyK21]

Honey you’re so jealous lol sorry you’re not privy to any information about my relationship or personal life, and I did that for a reason. I’d never let you know anything personal about me, you’re just too fucking weird. But since you love assuming and making up stories so much I’ll let you go ahead and paint a picture in you mind for what happens☺️🤍

[Sam1133]

HollyK21 leave her alone she is fuckin unstable

[HollyK21]

@sam1133 you are right.

[Asker]

@HollyK21 yeah you said he’s a basketball player

[Asker]

@Sam1133 I’m not unstable

[msc545]

It sounds like there was a lot wrong with you long before you met this man.

[Asker]

@msc545 he tried to use me… he knew I wasn’t emotionally stable he tried to use me

[HollyK21]

@msc545 she has a lifetime of trauma she’s trying to dump on one man and it’s ridiculous. He had no idea she was going through what she was going through and he left her alone once he realized she was unstable. He didn’t try to use her and specifically said as much after she accused him. He got nothing from her not even a kiss or holding hands. This happened in a week, in Nov 2023. We’re nearly 2 years into this and she still is blaming him for her own issues. Plus she was diagnosed OCD and Bipolar and is fully stalking this poor man. It’s insane.

[Asker]

@HollyK21 bitch YOU find something safe to do. Mind you you’re in my shit commenting and being annoying asf. Take that shit somewhere else. You don’t know me or this deceiving man! Leave me tf alone!

[Asker]

@HollyK21 and what I told you was confidential I definitely don’t fuck with you.

[Asker]

@HollyK21 and he knew I wasn’t emotionally unstable and continued to talk to me

[HollyK21]

I know, being reminded of the facts is super annoying. Good thing I don’t care how you feel. I have no problem telling people the truth. His side matters and he is not only a victim but in danger. I truly hope he goes through with taking legal action. I hope that woman you reached out to and harassed let’s him know as well so that he can add it to your file. When the Netflix documentary comes out, maybe it’ll be as good as Baby Reindeer but at least we can say we knew you first.

[HollyK21]

You posted it publicly, weirdo. Nothing confidential about that so shut up.

[Asker]

@HollyK21 cool beans 👍

[Asker]

@HollyK21 You’re entitled to your thoughts and feelings, but you’re not going to pressure me into changing how I view or speak on my own experience. This is my story to tell—something I lived through, not just heard about. I won’t continue going back and forth. Keep the disrespect on your end. This is the last time I’m responding. You stay on my dick

Yeah my shit is public but you said we were done talking. Who are you?

[msc545]

@HollyK21 Interacting with a Borderline is never any fun. You should stop now.

[Asker]

@msc545 I have feelings too. I’m not borderline just because you don’t understand someone

[Vegasrunner]

@exitseven Lol, you can find plenty lawyers to take the case the get paid regardless of the outcome.

[loveslongnails]

You can sue anyone for anything. Here's some info.

Forbes article on suing for emotional distress

[msc545]

Whoever this woman is just sent me a private message saying "fuck you", I assume because she doesn't dare to say it here publicly. I reported and blocked her.

[msc545]

She is probably the "asker" and I would mention her name, but don't want to get reported for a "user post".

[Asker]

@msc545 nobody gives a fuck. Stfu

[msc545]

I certainly don't give a f*** but you should be grateful. I didn't expose your name. Then more people could abuse you.

[Asker]

@msc545 chelsdope don’t fuck with me.

[msc545]

I wouldn't dream of it.

[loveslongnails]

@msc545 I can see why she is self-proclaimed as "emotionally unstable". LOL

[loveslongnails]

@msc545 I believe if she decides to sue this guy, she needs a great lawyer. The minute she speaks in court, she'll probably lose the case.

[strateguy632]

In America definitely but don't expect a judge to be fair.

[Vegasrunner]

You can Sue someone for anything. Unfortunately for you, you're going to spend a ton of money just to get laughed out of court.

[msc545]

Sure, you can sue anyone. Good luck finding a lawyer stupid or venal enough to help you.

[slatyb]

No, it's not. Get professional help.