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How to overcome the difficulty of dating as an introvert?

am 23yo. I have had one relationship when i was 16 but it was like childish if you know what i am saying. Since then nothing.

I am introvert and a bit shy. I have a loads of friends, both male and female. I am not that kind that stays home all the time or something. I like to go out, go to parties, go on guys trips etc. And i also love my alone time when i dont have to talk to anyone and just not being around people.

I am not a person who needs to have a relationship and someone to hold my hand. I am fine being in my own, i went on solo trips and it was so good. But lately i am starting to notice that everyone around me gets into relationships, has hook ups, texting with multiple girls and approaching girls.

I just feel so uncomfortable to approach a complete stranger. I can talk with my female friends without any problem or girls i am not attracted to. But to approach a hot girl that i dont know is scary for me. I am okay when it is like friend’s friend and they introduce us and we talk like in bigger group. Often when i am one on one i just dont know what to say. I am not the best at communication.

As a guy, it is nearly impossible to find someone when you don’t approach. I have to say that there were some people who told me hows that i dont have anyone that i am handsome. Mostly it was from random guys we started talking on trips in Spain and Italy.

I am generally not good with girls. I am not that kind of a guy who would chase a girl, take her to a dance floor and stuff. I don’t even want to spend my time chasing someone who will mostly likely not appreciate it. I have a dreams and goals to chase that make me keep going. But i just realized this recently that i am really poor at this.

How to overcome the difficulty of dating as an introvert?
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