Do you still have hope that you'll find love in 2025?

Question

I'm still very hopeful despite my issues. I know I need to focus on myself and I am, but I'm still hopeful that I will find someone within my healing journey.

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

Ok so today is the day your going to let it all go.. all the negitive talk that people have said to you... all the negitive talk you have told yourself. , after a break up. Or just anything in life. That you or anyone else has said to you

Im not good enough
Im not pretty
I don't belong
I will never find love
No one will love me.
You write them all down on a piece of paper.

And think about something. Your heart doesn't believe that because the heart is a fighter.

But your brain will belive it. And in time you are programing your self and all those negatives come true because its what you say s o its what you believe

Sometimes we just say things to ourselves to say them. But you say them enough times its what is going to happen so STOP.

Now right across from the negatives you have told yourself or others have told you.

Write down the opposite
It's time to reprogram your brain yourself
Believe in your every word

For ne I don't hope anything if I want it I get it

You have to ask yourself something

I ask myself this do I want a relationship in 2025
answer yes am I ready for it
Answer no
Why because im working on me how can I give myself to someone when im still putting myself together to be the best I can be

If I jump to soon I will get the same results that I've already been through..

It will start. And in time it will end

That old saying fake it until you make it. Is a big lie

Find yourself be your self love yourself believe in Yourself understand your self prepare your self trust yourself respect yourself explore experience yourself know yourself. And then you can give your self to someone. And when you are all the above

And there becomes a moment of doubt
In any manner you don't stick around for it to happen again and again.

You are strong enough to say who the fuck are you and you walk.

The whole reason your not with someone is because. You have lived alone this before. And you font want to ever live it again

So your afraid to fail and not be strong enough to walk out the door.

But today your strong enough today to doubt yourself because you know the truth

So forget 2025 be happy live life work on you.
There's nothing wrong with you except you believe what you abd others have told you

Change that your the only one that can. And until you do. Your going to remain. The sane with the same. Out come. Your a good person with a lot to offer. But only to the right person

HawkPerception · Accepted Answer

I don't know about 2025, but I always have hope. It really is a lonely and depressing journey though 😂

sage2021 · Accepted Answer

The hardest part about finding love period is finding the person right? It's already August so you still have a few more months.
I don't know why this is but almost every guy I have had a relationship with - we met during the fall or winter months.🤷🏻‍♀️

jazzy34 · Accepted Answer

I’m always hopeful. In fact, I just gave a guy my number. I don’t know if he’ll reach out, and if he doesn’t, that’s okay. Onto the next! 😊

dudeinohio · Answer

There is always hope.

You have identified your illness and are seeking treatment.

You'll be fine after a while. Bear in mind, you may have to try several antidepressants before you find the ones that will really be effective. BUT, what you are on now could do the job, too. You just have to see.

Many people have found love while in treatment. It becomes a part of us.

Zylos · Answer

The way I see love is just me having to follow some woman's rules and have her judge my lifestyle and stuff.

I see it as having to surrender power to her in return for sex.

So for now I think I would rather stay single, even though it is sexually frustrating.

Joshydavid25 · Answer

We'll connect with a decent amount of people throughout the year.. All it takes is to wanna work on and cultivate that connection and turn it into love.. Many people today have a hard time doing that.. I probably won't find it this year, but I will... One day..

Shiprex · Answer

I don't know about me if I am even interested because I am starting a new job in another country and from the one I want so it's unlikely but I hope you do @simslover92

Sevenpointfive · Answer

it sounds like you have two love stories that are going on. one is incredibly more important than the other even though it doesn't seem that way now. you want to be accepted wholly even when you see yourself as unacceptable.

all of that is SHIT! my best advice is to not let other people define you. that's not even my device, but it is good advice.

HelenaHandbasket · Answer

Love is a decision, not a cool sea shell you happen to find.

TrimmedTip · Answer

Healing and hoping aren’t mutually exclusive. Love often shows up when you’re busy building a life you adore.

Nerdvana · Answer

No, I don't. But I hope you do. You are always very sweet.

DonaldDarko · Answer

Better than that, I don't give a shit if I ever find that kind of love. I hope I'm immune to that now.

dragoblack · Answer

With current dating economy/society, very unlikely. All i get is compliments on my outfits & hair, with no other intentions offline, and online it's solicitation, false-positives, ghost, unresponsive, & scam matches.

queenofcardio · Answer

Sure yeah. I'm good if it happens or if it doesn't happen

RageBabe · Answer

As cliche as it may sound, I have found that love appears when you least expect it.

dustybiker2 · Answer

I have my love. Balancing and keeping it is a whole other thing.

BadApple69 · Answer

I hope to find love too…. Just please don’t tell my girl friend.

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

I hope not because I'm not prepared for polyamory lol

Nikki1989 · Answer

Found that a very long time ago, and it is still stronger than ever.

Lynx122 · Answer

I'm still hopeful but I don't know if it'll be in 2025 :)

SunnyCaliGirl · Answer

My motto is I live my life the best I can for every aspect of my life and when love is ready it will find me at the right moment it’s meant to

Mischiefmanaged89 · Answer

No. Not really. I want to, but I dont see it happening for me. I'm too weird for most guys and too introverted. I just enjoy my hobbit existence alone.

MannMitAntworten · Answer

That ship sailed long ago. Now it is random fun with poor decisions.

MOUTHWASHING · Answer

I only have hope. But not the truth with me. Im ugly so Im cursed to never have a future. (no girlfriend-no wife-no kids-no family)

Pohjolan · Answer

I'm not sure if hope is the right word. I'm no longer chasing love. If it happens it happens.

msc545 · Answer

No, it's not going to happen for me. I am far too suspicious and untrusting of women at this time to have anything good like that ever happen again.

HeartShapedHaze · Answer

I would like to hope so, the older I get I feel like its more difficult /:

AlwaysBelieving · Answer

Yes I do. Though I'm not putting a "timeline" on it

AngryCarl2 · Answer

I'm not looking for love, and if I found it now I wouldn't know what to do with it.

FreyaRed · Answer

Yes. Japan wouldn't surrender and landing an invasion on main Japanese islands would turn in a bloodbath.

grega239 · Answer

hasn't happened for the last 10 years and it probably won't happen in the next 10

Ironco · Answer

I'm not looking, so then it usually happens...

mysteriousN · Answer

Nah I'm retired from dating life - it's now only in my daydreams or my future reincarnation 😁👀😋

Skyros · Answer

I’ve already found it, but I wish the best to those who have not.

T_treeoil · Answer

Been hoping for years and nothing came of it. Maybe I should just give it up

Excelelliott16 · Answer

You know people are now scared of people, having that in heart is with everyone but putting in action to that it's absolutely unacceptable, because reality made trust a one time thing.

Greek_goddess_Iris · Answer

Nope, but I'll try again in 2016 LOL

Dan_5001 · Answer

No women wants autistic guy like me.

RHK36 · Answer

Nope, just seeking peace from now on

Yannae · Answer

There is always hope!

Jennz6 · Answer

Not this year

aquamarine321 · Answer

I’m not actively looking for anyone. So I guess no

an_nMary · Answer

Hmm this is hard to say

Iron_Man · Answer

absolutely not my time has come and gone

Twalli · Answer

I don't think I need to, I found it in 2018.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm not that optimistic, but maybe.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm too old for all that these days

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

Definitely not

warlock83 · Answer

No, and I am okay with that. No stress.

eagle1951 · Answer

na that ship has sailed.

KostasKouvalis · Answer

I am

Tracy2025 · Answer

not in 2025

WonderingManII · Answer

Nope.

Neallyaa · Answer

Nope

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