Why do women ghost men please can someone look at this because my situation is different then most?

[Ask105]

I really don’t understand i work as a Firefighter, I'm also a jack of all trades in multiple carrier fields. I've done everything from telling girls my life then ghosted so i learned not to tell them anything then they say its boring or they just ghost me and why would i want to flirt when i want a partner relationship don't care about sex i end up trying everything and different methods to talk to them realizing i can never actually express myself to a woman as an adult sucks ! also in great shape never been told i was ever unattractive by women i have ended up not trusting women and trying to read psychology how there brains work I'm at a loss none of them can see the Man in front of them ! It sucks because i have to resort to playing the so called Game like they do knowing they will leave me with the wind anyways.

[HeartShapedHaze]

Just the way the world is trending I feel like more people are just looking for hookups instead of relationships. You can never really know what is going on in someone's head though, with your resume I am sure the right one will come along soon enough

[Ask105]

I feel invisible out here man like im sitting at bus stop in my mind watching women pass me like does anyone see me Appreciate the response

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

It's all this fucking info dump. Christ, just reading this made me want to ghost you too. Sorry but you are red flag upon red flag.

[Ask105]

So I'm not offended by your comment I've said some things to women about me and each day my sentences with them get shorter and shorter

[Anonymous]

Start using punctuation.

Without knowing you or seeing your interactions it’s impossible to know why they ghost you. Clearly you’re doing something that turns them off or scared them. My guess is you’re boring and desperate.

[Ask105]

Im not desperate i don't double text them i don't chase them and i don’t even send them 3 sentences anymore. So I'm learning to flirt etc im trying I really am

[Ask105]

I am actively working how to speak to women because i have so many women that like me my whole life i just don't know how to express myself from a bad childhood affects me as an adult persuading a woman to like me im freaking trying tho

[Ask105]

I also just I'm starting to try to date for the first time as an adult working on my career so long , really hard

[Nikki1989]

You are taking it too seriously. Move on. Life is too short to waste it on such trivialities.

[OlderAndWiser]

You tell women that you don't care about sex?

[Ask105]

No i never bring up sex it just that i don’t want to be a player with women trying to express that to you guys

[Anonymous]

Almost always, she got a better offer. Women generally are as loyal as her opportunities.

[Anonymous]

Only ghosted a man once , cuz he was creepy af

[Anonymous]

People who ghost are cowards.

[slatyb]

Where are you meeting these women?

[Ask105]

So online switching to in person but preparing for more rejection before i can just talk to women incredibly with my words when i was a kid lost that as an adult focused on my goals currently doing self reflection learning to teach myself Game again its a drag