27 YO guy, wife of 2 years cheated. I left. divorce final, no kids or ties to her. no debt.. is this a big turn off for women in their 20’s?

[Anonymous]

As stated. Just worry as I know I want to be married again to someone who can keep the promises. But I’m 27, not interested in women older than me. Just worried how women 23-28 view it. If on a good second date I share this many would bail or not.

[Ask105]

Sorry bro its her loss and I would never bring it up until your dating a girl don't even put in your dating profile if she asks about past relationships just be like I've had some good ones and now it may lead me to you then change topics

[Asker]

I mean.. I would share date 2 probably. You know divorce is public state record right?

[Ask105]

Thats a little crazy if she looks that up most girls never even ask for my full name i have a name like i say my name is john on a date but my full name is johnny they never ask my full name last name etc i don't ask theirs like i said these modern women go on dates 3 times a week if you can get her to being a girlfriend sure tell her i learned its not even worth telling women anything personal about me because as fcked up as it sounds that dont care it takes a lot for a woman to get invested in men now a days don’t shoot yourslef in the foot she will probably thing its your fault for the divorce build something with her first best of luck

[Ask105]

Its annoying but you can deflect so many of their questions and their like hmm and then thats over

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

Answering this to reassure everyone this is not me.

That said, I have been going on dates with a 21 and a 25 years old, there never was a problem regarding my divorce or the fact that I have children.

[Anonymous]

Women in your 20’s, you’re on a date 2 with a 28 YO guy, find out he divorced (she cheated) no kids or attachments etc, is this a turn off?

[Opinion Owner]

So you’re 27 and 28?

[Asker]

Comments like yours always bother me. I’ve seen them on other posts before. I’m 27. That is my ost and I assume it was just a finger slip typing. 7 is right next to 8 on the keypad just so you know.

But moreover… why do you care so much to make a comment like this? It’s a totally benign ‘difference’ anyway to the subject matter. And then you don’t even answer the question? Just lots of weirdness in my eyes.

[Opinion Owner]

Cuz there’s a ton of spam on here and you posted the same thing twice

[Asker]

I mean fair but I posted to two separate groups that both fit the topic., is that not allowed? I’m not being sarcastic I didn’t know it wasn’t?

Anyway, what are your thoughts on the question? Would it be an issue for you?

[Opinion Owner]

Nope it wouldn’t

[Asker]

Thanks, in your opinion is date 1 or 2 the time to share? I’m very open about it, but I get it may be ‘heavy’ to bring up right away too.

[Opinion Owner]

2 or later , kinda too personal for first date topics

[Opinion Owner]

thanks for mho

[Anonymous]

That’s not a huge turnoff. Completely understandable actually.

[Asker]

You keep seeing the guy and get serious?

[Opinion Owner]

If I like him sure

[Ms_Facesitter]

No, just don't cheat on me like she did

[Asker]

Did you feel that way at 24 etc? Or would it be a harder pull in your mid 20’s?