I'm 32 and still not married. I'm starting to give me think I'm going to be single forever.
No, but you wasted your best years, you're running out of time, and you're no longer entitled to male perfection or ridiculously high standards like you're used to from your 20s. PLENTY of good men would still want you, provided you're actually a good woman. And if not, then you'll just blame men for "not being on my level."
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Once a woman turns 26 years old a guy's perspective starts to change. The serious guy sees a wife and child in 3 years from day of meet. Basically, that means she's 30 by the time she's a mom in marriage.
Once one hits 30 the probability of a serious long-term commitment by same age is not likely. Perhaps, 36-50 should be consideration for you.
Why are you equating marriage with success? It is possible to be happy AND single. Think about other possibilities and reframe your mindset.
not at all! god has a plan whether its marriage or singleness!
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No it’s not over long as you’re a good woman
Assuming you have no obvious undesirable qualities, why would you think its over for you? Is an alternative of being in an unhappy marriage by your age more suitable? Many guys I know, Including me are in a headache of a relationship in some way wondering if we are better off alone as either we changed with life experience or accepted situations that didn't work for us at the time so they didn't resolve. Are you also actively looking for a relationship? There are many questions only you can answer, then go from there with resolving it.
I read in the Daily Mail a year ago that "Half of women are now childless at thirty for the first time ever" which of course doesn't resolve your situation but may provide support that its not only you.
What? It can't be!!!
My aunt was given horrible medicines during her pregnancy (before Dr.'s knew). and left my older cousin very short, very heavy with a cute face and a heart of gold. In her 30's she'd long since given up the idea of a man (hadn't happened) and of course a family. She was a nurse and chose to work in a children's oncology ward. Selflessness I guess helps.
A guy popped into her life from nowhere with similar acceptance of inevitability and similar physically and mentally (forgot she was wicked smart) and they both had a perfect beautiful child! Just like me... well maybe not. If it's a child your concerned about have one or adopt one and love them. I still bet he will come along. Keep you eyes and heart open!Christmas Cake at that point, but you might still find a man, if you very lucky. :)
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Not even close. You are still very young and have a lot more life ahead of you than behind. The only guys who think that's over the hill are kids, and you probably won't want anything to do with them anyway.
You need to consider your options carefully and get relationship and marriage sorted pretty quick and it's not a quick process. Assuming you want a family. Your value is dropping so you can't afford to be over ambitious. Depends on your mindset and commitment.
You may be over the hill but you are under the mountain! As for love it works in mysterious ways & when it comes to being single that can change in a heartbeat.
Have you at least tried, or are you 'unwanted material'?
Being single can have many different reasons.
Could be. If you want to be loved, you've got to be more lovable.
Well, it's not over because you're over 30.
You’re a woman you can just ask a guy out and I’m sure they would love that.
Of course not
How much money do you make?
Nope.
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