Is it sad that I'm a 32 year old woman and I'm single?

[Anonymous]

Yes

No

[meetkitty123]

At the end of the day all that matters is how you feel. If you are content not having a committed relationship and you feel you are better off commitment free then thats whats best for you. If at the end of the day you find yourself lonely and aching for affection then I give you my deepest sincere solace. In this case Be patient keep your chin up keep smiling. A happy desposition is contagious and attractive. I say to be patient knowing this isn't always easy. However rushing into relationships blindly isn't wise. It could make you miss certain characteristics. I know for a fact I rather be free and lonely than be in a committed relationship and be lonely and miserable. What Im saying if you want a relationship and are looking for one just make sure they are good to you. Single or in a relationship we deserve to be happy. Remember if you are single and longing for it not something to be shamed for. many WONDERFUL people are single and its not because of them but because they can't find someone suitable for them who will treat them as wonderful as they truly are.

One day at a time. However you are living I hope you find happiness 🤗

[Bluemax]

I was going to write a reply, but this response is better than anything I could have said.

[meetkitty123]

@Bluemax
Thank you dear max!

[Still-alive]

Beautiful reply 😘

[CrazyGirl2]

Only if you WANT to be married! If you are perfectly happy being single, then no it’s not at all sad. You are fine, your situation is fine, everything is fine. You are exactly where you want to be. If however, you want to be married and you have always wanted to be married, or at a minimum in a long-term committed relationship, then yes! Yes it’s very sad indeed.

[HippieVeganJewslim]

Many people, like Sir Isaac Newton and Nikola Tesla died in virginity. My mum was unmarried at that age. There’s nothing sad or mad or bad about staying single at any age. It can be hard finding a compatible soulmate.

[UniquelyBasic]

Not to me. People go through life and its hard to find the one who you want to settle down with, if thats what they are even looking for.

[OlderAndWiser]

It would be sadder if you were 32 years old and stuck in a miserable marriage.

[meetkitty123]

You said it thats the WORST for sure!

[Sugar100]

We’ll most women that age are all married or in big home with guy and Babies. And girls like always will comment be fake& say you need learn be independent & be alone love yourself not need a man yet they are all themselves with a guy 24/7 saying that bullshit 😑 I’m not a fake woman so I don't know what advice to give but try use dating apps and social events or have friend let you meet a single guy. All women depend on living with a man no girl is happy alone independent please don’t listen to that crap. Also I learned it depends how lucky you are and what your destiny is. Some women are lucky get married. 5 times. Or some married forever only to one guy. Some married since age 20. Some are not lucky like me & not married yet at 25-26. Some are not lucky single like you at 32. It depends on the luck god gave u

[Anonymous]

Look out there’s a Giant
lol
You Must Think your powerful after all you Females always Use that word like it makes you Feel powerful or empowering your some Other Bullshit

Boomer

[MCheetah]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4L0tHAShL7g

[CA4444]

The guys who said yes 🤣🤣 I’m 30 and single 💀

[chris_987]

It says a lot about your standards probably, because women have more options than guys

[CA4444]

@chris_987 I don’t think so, I don’t have standards or anything like that when it comes to relationships, I just don’t fall in love easily or quickly… i don’t feel like being in a relationship if I’m not 100% into the guy that doesn’t make sense to me. but guys always ask me why I’m still single and I don’t get it, like it’s not like going to the market and picking the best vegetables…

[chris_987]

So what's wrong with guys then

[CA4444]

@chris_987 well nothing I love men in general, and I have been in a few relationships before, I was in a relationship most of my adult life actually

[chris_987]

Oh so your tired of being in a relationship because you've done it so much

[CA4444]

@chris_987 nooo why you’re saying that! I actually like a guy so much and want to be with him… women aren’t always as calculating or manipulative or picky as men thing? We’re driven by emotions if we feel in love then we want to be with the guy if not then we leave

[CA4444]

Think*

[chris_987]

So basically the guy didn't give you a good enough reason to stay, if you driven be emotions that means it's the guy job to make you feel emotional. Your love is a reaction of his actions.

[CA4444]

@chris_987 we can discuss in private also 😃

[chris_987]

Discuss what? I'm lost

[CA4444]

@chris_987 okay whatever haha

[nachosaresexy]

"picking the best veggies" :)

[ChrisMaster69]

No it’s not we go through cycles.

it’s often why we are single that is more important than the being single part.

bring stuck in a dead relationship can be far worse.

[cdimples99]

So glad I read your comment - I stayed stuck in a dead marriage for years, which led to my choosing divorce - other factors were of course at play, but true, it is worse to be in a horrible relationship!

[cdimples99]

I know a few corporate women in this age bracket and are single. I am a single and divorced mom of 1 so I am in this singles category and it is very sad and challenging to go through for me - but know you are not alone and should not lower your standards regardless.

[EmmaMary]

It's not sad in the slightest... You've obviously chosen this way of life, otherwise you would have done something about before now.

[MCheetah]

Yes. it's your fault for being overly picky and rejecting all the good men, now that you're done with the Hot Dog Carousel.

[Rainbowpearl]

These are just your own assumptions stemming from your misogyny? You don't know anything about her life, she didn't mention anything in that question

[MCheetah]

@Rainbowpearl
STFU, lady. Who are you, again? Why should I care? Oh wait, I don't.

[Avicenna]

Not actually. It’s only a problem if you are single overcome long term but don’t want to be. And meeting someone can happen at any time.

[TheMajesticKing777]

I'd be pretty childish and nosey if I called you sad for being single, it might be somewhat uncommon, is there a reason why you are single?

[Hairylegs222]

No it's not. I'm in the same boat but 35. I'll find the one for me and won't give up. I hope you do too 😊

[cdimples99]

This is so helpful, I thought it was harder for single women in their 30s, so great seeing this from a man, I hope you and I both find the one too!

[Sour-rose]

It's only sad if you sell your soul anyway possible to not be single

[CarolinaJones]

Of course not! It just means you haven't found the right partner.

[Smallboobsgotohell]

For 31 yrs🤣🤣🤣

[CarolinaJones]

@Smallboobsgotohell I don't know man maybe their partner died or are divorced

[EarthRealm]

😂 😆

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

So is a lot of people around the world, men and women so no not sad

[Midnight_Kiss]

I hope not considering I'm 34 and have been single since I was 28

[FilmGuy93]

It doesn't have to be sad, but it certainly might be, depending on the reason.

[Danny_dan92]

I’m a 30 year old male and have been single 90% of my life. Welcome to the 21st century

[r4nd0mus3r]

depends on why you're single, how long youve been single for, etc

[Smallboobsgotohell]

Yes maybe u will be still single when u are 34

[zagor]

Does it make you sad? Doesn't matter what other people think.

[JohnK123]

I mean u can still find people at ur age 🤷‍♂️

[Nahid1707]

No because you have the experience of knowing what you want

[Guardian45]

Welcome to the club! Join the line way back in the rear!

[Anonymous]

Nope. You've chosen to be single. That's nobody else's business.

[tsubasa2607]

No it's your decision and everyone has to respect it

[Anonymous]

How long have you been single now and how long was your longest relationship

[Anonymous]

I am 38 and have been single for 22 years. And almost 16 years before that relationship.

[slatyb]

How do you feel about it?

[OddBeMe]

No. Do you feel left behind?

[EaterPeter]

If you feel sad, it is. If you don't, it is not.

[Anonymous]

feminism as work

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Actually no

[Slim57]

No...