Men made it clear they only want to provide for, respect, chase, admire and love 10/10s. What should I do?

[Kouygb]

Men chase the “hottest women” 10/10 and obsess over them, and say women who aren’t 8-10s shouldn’t expect men to treat them to dinner, chase them or anything. Since I’m not a 10, what should I do?

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9 mo

I have to say I have had multiple experiences talking to men who are average or maybe below average looking and they wanted to engage with me while telling me I don’t look acceptable as I am and have to change everything head to toe including my body (surgeries). So this is not just some internet thing. There are “average” men out here who actually only respect and want 10/10 and every girl less than that is not good enough to them and they aren’t shy to let us know it.

[DannyUk2017]

WTF (welcome to facebook) 😳, where did you come up with this? Which world you living in? 10 out of 10? I hate when Women/Men talk about Numbers, is a total BS..."if she's a 6 i don't want her, if he's a 4 i can't stand him, etc" that is total madness... In Europe we don't have the 10/10bs... I like you, we click, we date and see where it takes us, if we develop/ grow the Chemistry, Desire, Arousal, Interest in each other than that is a Plus, if we become boyfriend/girlfriend and marry that's the Cherry on Top, i Choose you for Who You Are not for How You Look, Outer beauty in 10-20-30 years will be gone, you'll become saggy, i'll become wrinkled, so we won't be looking like in our prime anymore, But the Inner Beauty? Always will be there, The Feelings, The Interaction, The Attention those are the ones that keep the "fire burning", if those Flame out then you can look 100 out of 10, won't make a difference... so yeah.. all this "scaling" is total craze... No one will be 8/10,9/10,10/10 for the rest of their life...

[ohsheeT]

Ok stop for a min. Look at it in another way

Make this about you and not them

Do you or would you really be with a man like that. Down deep once you really got to know those guys deep the truth about them would come out and they are not who you think they are. So stop

Make this about you and what you want but be 100 percent honest. Im looking for a certain type of girl that has certain qualities I mean many of them. . but I also know that's just a dream girl. One day yes maybe she will walk in to my life. And the odds of me knowing that is the girl. Is 50/ 50 chance.

I except that but im not going to wait for it either..
So I let go of it all. I will know the right girl when I meet her. Just like you you will know if its the right guy when he walks in to your life

It will happen when you love yourself and become the best you can be because that's the guy you will attract to you. Because he will be doing thevsame

[PeachyPie93]

Who the hell are you dating? LOL I am like a 6 at best and I had average to below average dudes want to treat me like a princess or marry me. It's just unfortunate I didn't click with those guys.. I know guys can defo be shitty but I don't know why they would be treating you like you need to change how you look so often it would be common place for you..

[JoshSimmer]

What your character, will you help him and will you let him be take charge and let him be serve you and be grateful for his best efforts. If you provide a safe home and create a loving atmosphere he will provide anything and protect what you value. He will bring and support you anything. If your loyal and trustworthy he do anything for you.

[FunkyMonkee]

That's bullshit. There's been several plain or even "ugly" women (according to other guys) I've been in love with over the decades. Prettiness is really nice but sweetness is MUCH MORE appreciated!!

[Kouygb]

According to who? Six of 8.000 men?

[Kouygb]

I have to say I have had multiple experiences talking to men who are average or maybe below average looking and they wanted to engage with me while telling me I don’t look acceptable as I am and have to change everything head to toe including my body (surgeries). So this is not just some internet thing. There are “average” men out here who actually only respect and want 10/10 and every girl less than that is not good enough to them and they aren’t shy to let us know it.

[FunkyMonkee]

Yeah, probably. Because most boys are taught to go after the really pretty ones and the rest are 'ugly". If parents and peers would stop doing that and teach that it's what's in the heart that matters more than what the heart is walking around in, there might not be very much of that anymore.
And the same goes for girls probably a LOT more!!! Had I not been treated that way most of my life, I'd be at least a grandfather, by now!! So far, I'm not even married and only just got a girlfriend!! But, because I was never the jock or a Cary Grant lookalike, nobody was interested in me! Yet, when they take the time to find out about ME, they discover that I'm a VERY nice guy and someone they're VERY interested in! Problem is, by then, THEY'RE all married by then!!
Single girls don't want me, married girls can't understand why!!

[FunkyMonkee]

If he can't accept you the way you are, he's NOT worth it!! DON'T fall for that shit!! Why should YOU have to change yourself to please HIM? Would he do that for you? I seriously doubt it!! I'm sure you're perfectly fine as you are and you just have to meet the right guy. The guy that loves you for YOU!! NOT some asshole that only loves you after you've become a plastic Barbie doll!!

[dudeinohio]

Personality beats looks every time. You'll find someone.

[jahaims]

Touch grass