So I'm About to confess to my crush that I like him what is the best thing to help rejection because I fully anticipate rejection?

[lucyvoid]

[ohsheeT]

Everybody else says if you're turned down you're being rejected to me. Rejected is picked up and thrown out the door so I look at it as you're being turned down


And I've been turned down a few times and of course I was embarrassed by it.
But to be honest, it's okay because there is a reason for it. If this universe doesn't want to happen, it's not to be happy about that because you're being saved.
So look at it as it's happening for a reason. And the reason isn't because the guy doesn't like you. I mean, there could be many reasons why he's saying no\n But don't look at it as rejection, because are you guys friends? You still remain friends if you are right, so it's just timing everything's timing, just smile and say, okay. Thank you. And then come back on here and hit one of us single guts up LO. L

[seeyounexttuesday]

Some people like Chinese food.

Some people LOVE Chinese food.

Some people are indifferent to Chinese food.

Some people dislike Chinese food.

Some people like Chinese food but aren't in the mood for it right now.

None of these statements invalidates Chinese food

[Abbycado]

I think you’ve already done it which is prepare that could be the case.

[lucyvoid]

I have full faith that it is the case and I've never done this before

[Abbycado]

Well, not sure there is anything else you can do other than what you have.

I will say that you should try and be a little more positive and open to it maybe not being a rejection. Some people can sense you aren’t confident.

[lucyvoid]

I mean I can't really see any reason he would agree to it he's amazing and I'm nothing particularly special.

[Plugs]

Why do u keep saying he is amazing

[lucyvoid]

@Plugs because he is he just doesn't seem to realize that himself.

[Plugs]

What do u mean he is?

[lucyvoid]

@Plugs he's kinda caring he listens he's a very intelligent man though to shy to show it when he jumps it's kinda like seeing a deer jump it looks almost elegant

[Plugs]

How much do u both weigh

[Abbycado]

@Plugs wtf has that got to do with anything weirdo?

[Abbycado]

You’re that anon troll, aren’t ya? “What do you look like?”

[Abbycado]

Sorry asker, this user is a troll: I blocked. She won’t be able for respond with her unrelated crap.

[jazzy34]

By remembering he's not the only guy on Earth.

[Ask105]

The worst rejection will be mentally if you never ask , and go into it with confidence and go out with confidence either way its a win and you continue your life

[es20490446e]

You are doing it the hard way.

Just show interest in getting the two of you together ALONE.

Then just be NATURALLY nice to him.

[lucyvoid]

I've been playing video games with him at lunch

[lucyvoid]

He misunderstood me and thought I was asking for him to play video games at my house. And I think he was going to say yes but I corrected him saying I just ment at lunch

[es20490446e]

I mean: a plan OUTSIDE.

[Plugs]

Should have let him come to your home

[lucyvoid]

@Plugs can't I live with two people who are dicks and would be mean to him and I explained that because I wasn't going to let them be mean to him

[Plugs]

Oh that’s sad. Why would they be mean to him

[lucyvoid]

@Plugs because they are my X fiance and the whore of a roommate he was sleeping with

[Anonymous]

I know how you feel, all of my loves were unrequited.

But I was never rejected, because I never had self-confidence to ask a girl on a date.

[lucyvoid]

I mean at least I'm trying right I'm so getting rejected

[Opinion Owner]

Right, good luck.

[bowenw]

Worry about it if you get rejected. If he rejects you, it's his loss.

[Anonymous]

What do u plan on saying

[lucyvoid]

Well I'm not very good at talking about feelings I freeze up

But he mentioned that he's never received flowers before to me and he really loves literature. So I got him this book on floreography ( secret messages used by Victorians by passing specific flowers) I put a book mark in the Paige he needs and intended to give a flower that means " I have a crush on you " and waiting to see his reaction to it. If I think it's a rejection I'm going to say he misunderstood and hand him some other flowers and say these are just flowers that I thought had interesting stories behind there meaning. If I think he's receptive to the idea I'll confess fully

[Opinion Owner]

But I have a crush on u sounds so lame

[lucyvoid]

It's a different phrase than that I just haven't chosen which one yet

[Opinion Owner]

So did u confess?

[lucyvoid]

It's not until tomorrow when I see him

[Opinion Owner]

Is there anything Special tomorrow?

[lucyvoid]

It's just the next time I see him it's also the night I play DND after work so I'll have a pick me up after I'm rejected

[Opinion Owner]

How did it go?

[lucyvoid]

I won't know until Tuesday when I see him again I but I think it definitely could have gone better like I was so much more articulate in my head

[MasterKS]

Make a back up partner ready.

[lucyvoid]

Um no I don't do that.

[MasterKS]

@lucyvoid best option if rejected.

[lucyvoid]

I don't do that it sounds like Head game's and I don't treat anyone as my second choice

[Plugs]

What makes him your first choice?

[lucyvoid]

@Plugs he's so sweet and kind he soft spoken he's very smart though he doesn't show it to everyone. I love his bashful little smile it's even cuter since he wares all this edgy stuff.