How do you take rejection from your crush 🤔?

[JoyGirl]

Well, how do ya? Do you take it like a champ, or do you cry? 🥴

[Anonymous]

This may sound cold-hearted or selfish, but I usually walk away once that happens.

If you put a lot of romantic energy and time into a girl, at least from my perspective and it goes unappreciated or leads to nothing, then it's time to go.

It would ultimately depend on how long we've been continuing, in this case the 'Romantic illusion', but to save myself from heartbreak, face and depression, it's better to end it.
A calm "Don't worry about it. That's fine. I feel strongly about you however, so I think it's best if we don't talk/see each other anymore. Good luck (Name)." That's it.

After that, just getting on with life again is what you do. This is my personal opinion, so other methods may work better with other people

[NathanDavis]

no idea... I have never been rejected because I didn't even tell a crush, that I had a crush on them... lol

[FlutteringFeelings]

You move onto the next guy. I was at an airport and I saw a guy that I was sorta attracted to and I realized that I wasn’t his cup of tea so I moved on with my life. Women believe that every guy that they find attractive should be attracted in return and that’s not always the case. A guy telling me ‘no’ doesn’t break down my self-esteem because I am confident. Have a crush but don’t allow fantasy to lead you to disappointment. You can find someone attractive and until they confirm there is mutual interest then move with caution.

[Lucid_Dreams]

I cry like a champ.

[Lucid_Dreams]

Thanks for MHO 😊

[JoyGirl]

You are welcome. 💜

[jennifer_bloom]

I don’t feel heart broken over a rejection but more that I used up time that could have been spent on another guy

[Super4]

Actually my crush rejected me as a revenge, because I rejected him first!!
At first he thought I was gonna cry like baby, and do stupid things, nope!!
I started to ignore him, then I got all my attention but sometimes he ignore me in return, but he can't help him self, he started to treat me like his girlfriend even though he have a girl, he doesn't even respect this girl, he call the girl ugly, yelled at her. But always came to my house and still!!!
I love him and he loves me too, we both scared of rejected because we both rejected each other. When he comes over to my house I have a feeling, he only come for me but not for my brothers, he always excited to see me, his eyes light up, always try to come near me, talk to me!!
It is not bad if we starting as a friend then go for more!.

[JoyGirl]

Well, I hope it works out for you guys. 💜

[Super4]

Thanks 😊

[Oigit]

I go in expecting it and it's not much of an issue when it happens. Comes from being a outcast and socially awkward. But I bet having two out casts crushing on each other can made things weird as hell. They do like each other. But neither of them have the social skills to move forward. So it ends up being all sorts of awkward.

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

Well, I got rejected by a girl.
She said it calmly.
I thanked her for her honesty and left.
We encountered each other many times, but I did not even look at her after that. We were in the same class.

There were instances where I was just looking outside the windows in the classes and then would notice something moving and then it would be her turning her head towards the board. It confused me, but I never gave any thought to it. Still don't give it.

[Junior42]

Maybe she was thinking about you maybe she regretted it was thinking about asking you out over again

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

@Junior42 She was known to have many boyfriends. It was my mistake to ask her, without doing a research on her.
Most probably she was thinking I was a fool, as she was the only one who spread the news all over the school, for which she paid the price as I just brushed it off but I think she faced a lot of problems after that.

[Junior42]

I never understood that so all her boyfriends were okay sharing one girl? What do you mean she was the only one who spread the news all over the school she spread the news that she rejected you? How did she pay the price people were making fun of her for being a slut?

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

@Junior42 🤣You are taking it too far. She was known to hop from one guy to another, and out of nowhere I told her that I like her. She was not in any kind of sexual relationship whatsoever. I think she tried to enjoy her beauty in this way, I guess.

She did not tell anyone about her rejection, but about my confession. The POV is different here.
And later I heard, like 1 or 2 months later that she was having a guy problem. He was not ready to leave her, stalking or something.
I was like, God is there somewhere. For all the boys with her, who shared the same pain, that guy was filling it up.

But no kind of girl should encounter such guy. I think.

[Anonymous]

I thought I handled it well, I was numb for the first two months. Then the sadness set in for another two months. I think I am getting better. Slowly but surely. So I guess being sad immediately is a good thing.


It also teaches me that the person can act like he likes you and he might even like you for real. But it doesn’t mean that he definitely wants to be together with you. This just fucks with my mind quite badly

[Msputiton]

It is what it is🤷🏾‍♀️

I actually only had eyes for 1 person for like 5yrs and it is a ridiculously complicated story, that keeps us from being together.
So i just say forget dating

[JoyGirl]

Who? 👀

[Msputiton]

I could dm you the story, i don't want something this personal put out here.

[JoyGirl]

Bet. 👌🏾

[OddBeMe]

Try not to get so attached to a crush. I keep referring to my business. I have to meet 10 potential clients to sign 1. It’s a numbers game.

Also, when someone rejects you, it’s most likely their subconscious desires that have nothing to do with you. They prefer glasses, or they like broader shoulders, etc.

[JasM0]

Emotions and feelings are there for a reason. Work through your process, but don’t dwell in the space. Have an abundance mindset grounded in reality, and remember that it’s called a crush for a reason. 😊


Regards!

[Static_In_The_Attic]

As for me I always look at it like they did me a favor & I can’t help it if some people are numb from the neck up & have a major malfunction in their logic.

[devoygf]

your pfp is creepy o_O

[Static_In_The_Attic]

@devoygf GrassyAss!

[loveslongnails]

I cry like a child, grovel at her feet, and beg her to love me... because that approach ALWAYS works, right? LOL Not. You take as best you can, and then you move on. There's another train coming in a little while.

[MLGbreezy]

Pretty badly, in the sense that even when they reject me I still be hanging on to hope that she'll change her mind. I hate that but that's how I am. Random girls I ask out or think ik cure u don't tend to care.

[ohboyohboy76]

I was so dazed, I walked straight into a vending machine. I'll blame the tears on that. After that, I kept my crushes to myself.

[DJaQueef]

I just pull an upper decker and reverse kanga on their toilets when they least expect it. Be discreet and act fast. It gets your message across.

[JosyJosy]

'That's okay' :)
my head: "NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO"
But after I've run out of O's I realize it really is okay, cause now I know and can move on

[MrTuxedo]

I just get over it. Like come on, there's plenty of fish in the sea, no reason to cry over being rejected.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

I was never rejected as i never approached.

But 100% sure if would i , then i would be rejected.

I just become silent , i won't cry but i could be sad

[lilyisready]

it's a 2 step process
first, i imagine approaching the guy and flirting and i picture it going really well
second, i avoid the rejection by continuing to just imagine it and never actually approach him

[Wester1967]

As soon as I feel it, Boom. It's over. I'm out. Door slam and see ya. She becomes dead to me. Instantly. Sorry not sorry.

[Jintendo18]

I only go after girls that like me whenever I come across them if I feel the same. If I don’t come across any or don’t like the ones that do, then that’s ok, too.

[awkward_author]

I accept it, keep my distance for a bit and move on. After I do, I'd be open to a friendship if they are interested.

[AdithyaR]

Simple, I don't take a rejection cause I never ask them. Can't lose if you don't play.

[exitseven]

I take it pretty hard but you would never know it from looking at me.,

[Here_Now]

If I was rejected, I'd end up everything and leave peacefully.

[nawtee_me]

There is always a 50% chance of rejection. You win some and you loose some

[Anonymous]

If you are rejected by some, it is not the person you love anyway.

[Cowboy6666]

I will move on with disappointment and feel sad. Thats all

[Jhonrembo]

I am taking it like a champ and cry. It’s better to do both 😂

[Naughtyboy71]

Really what can you do get upset or mad
still don't change things

[bexar0010]

I know I'd feel hurt. I've only ever cried over a crush once. These days I don't know.

[Anonymous]

Not good. It deeply hurts me inside. I am about to give up all together.

[devoygf]

why is he blushing tho

[devoygf]

what's the name of the anime

[JoyGirl]

I am not sure about this one. I would like to watch it, too. 🤔

[sensible27]

I don't have crushes (maybe)

[hellacray]

Just confirms that my hunch was right.

[Juxtapose]

I expect it so feel little from it.

[donnny2367764]

With a long masturbation session

[scott04sa22]

I just move on as always 🤷🏻‍♂️

[collie22]

i'll have to think about that

[Gwenhwyfar]

Not well

[Anonymous]

I would go home and jack off until I was sore

[jasco]

move on

[Caramelpie]

I move on.

[Anonymous]

you are old lol

[JoyGirl]

Says the one who is 30-35. :)

[Opinion Owner]

30 is the new 20

:P

[JoyGirl]

Sure thing, hun. If you say so. 😂

[Milliex]

Ofc i cry

[hellenamulle236]

just crying