When you get a crush, do you become attracted to certain aspects of their physical appearance that you didn’t initially find attractive (18+)?

[mistixs]

Yes, they become perfect, even characteristics I didn’t find attractive before

Mostly. It won’t turn a complete turn-off into a turn-on, but it can change a mild turn-off into a turn-on

To some degree. It won’t turn any turn-off into a turn-on, but it can change neutral characteristics into turn-ons

No, I’m only attracted to aspects of their appearance I was already attracted to, but most or all turn-offs become neutral

No, I’m only attracted to aspects of their appearance I was already attracted to. Turn-offs remain turn-offs

I’ve only had crushes on people whose appearances I already found perfect

I’ve never had a crush, or I don’t know, or I’m younger than 18

A total of 22 votes were cast: 7 girls and 15 guys. See detailed results

[ohsheeT]

For me when I find someone I like i start from the inside out...

Because that who we all are before we are human beings we are spiritual beings from energy

If you look to the inside first to find out who they truly are how big their heart is. Do they care how smart they are? How wise they are. What do they passionate ayou will start to feel energy coming from them.

And once you know they are on the inside, then you look to them on the outside.

My turn ons come from who they are on the inside can they speak with there eyes is there touch and voice sensual

Can they feel my energy can we become one and as this is all coming together I start to look at body and body language.

When we hug or cuddle is it from the inside out

Or is it just the outside. There is a big difference

When your with some one and you our in any type of relationship even if it's just friend ship

If all you do is hear words from the outside it won't last very long.

In a relationship when you touch you touch from the inside out.

And if you understand what I'm saying and become one then that what you become and feel every moment of every day it's love and spiritual it's real and that makes me turn on every second of every min of every day and so on

[Hardon-Collider]

Yes, but it's not just about physical features. It's a karmic force that evolves. In youth, it's often a raw, astral force that draws you to physical qualities. As you mature, that force is refined by your developing 'I'. The attraction transforms into a deeper connection, one based on a recognition of the other's spiritual potential and their own inner work. It's a force that resonates with the etheric body, the carrier of destiny and life-forces, not just the physical body. It's a sign of spiritual evolution, not just a change in taste.

[Nikki1989]

Crushes are something young teens have.

[dwreborn]

Yes definitely on the inside physically you see what you see but you start to notice personality the expressions on their face all that stuff is nice to discover later on

[DrPepper12]

I've always been wholly infatuated and couldn't find a flaw til it wore off in a few weeks.

[Anonymous]

I’ve only had crushes on girls whose appearances I already found perfect...

- Their face, hair, eyes

- Their legs, and body

- Their clothing style

[WonderingManII]

I don't get crushes.