Girls are you attracted to effeminate looking guys?

[MakingMeHiiiigh]

I see it all the time... guys with an effeminate ethos as in, dress style, hairstyles, earrings, skinny, nose rings girly tattoos etc; how they act looking like they get their ass waxed daily at the local pedicure parlor with their twinks lmao

It seems as if the more manly look: beards, strong, muscly, assertive and aggression and arrogance is just too intimating

[PlacentaSalad]

I think the effeminate and sensitive male is becoming more commonplace in any society influenced by feminism. I mean, just look at France. What's funny is that these feminists encourage people to not adhere to any specific gender roles or identity but then they see men are embracing femininity as a result, and then they start wondering why they're more manly than the dudes around them. Well, shit, ladies. Stop spreading the idea that masculinity is toxic and you won't have so many pussies following you around like a lost puppy, hoping you take care of them.

How many women do you see that are rather masculine as well? In my experience, I notice quite a few whenever I'm out and about. Girls with extremely short hair, baggy clothing, unshaven legs and armpits, etc. It's just really gross and sad how everything is so backwards now.

[Anonymous]

Depends on whether you think these guys are effeminate or not?

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[Freija1989]

No, I like masculine men, if you ' re effeminate then you might as well go all the way and transition ( I know it ' s not easy ) but I don ' t really like in between from male to female and still calling yourself male or non binary, the new trend. I can take butch women though.

[LittleSally]

Most probably the One Direction fans love feminine guys...
They love the skinny jeans look I think...

by the way., aggression and arrogance isn't intimidating - it's repellent...

[MakingMeHiiiigh]

Obviously that with self control and composure

[LittleSally]

I'm pretty sure arrogance is always a negative trait. Unless you're a business man or a politician... But that's positive only in the business circles, not with people (unless they want something material from you).
+ the skinny, 'feminine' One Direction type guys can be pretty arrogant as far as I can tell.

[MakingMeHiiiigh]

It's a good trait to maintain your ground, not to be pushed around, to hold one's views and beliefs and not to be negatively influenced by others.

That is true too, but the ethos they have is effeminate, dress style and pedicures, spoilt brat type of personality going on. They're also pushed around by others I'd imagine

[LittleSally]

Not so sure about that... That might be the image they might project, but pretty sure it's not like that in real life.

[Freija1989]

It ' s like this, little one. The post modern guy that seems to have lost his touch with masculinity, when he doesn ' t want to be a nerd or a sissy anymore adopts a boyish artificial sort of masculinity definitely immature and quite different from the masculinity of a mature alpha that has a masculine instinct and doesn ' t need to force himself into doing it, it comes naturally. Also, speaking of arrogance, it is neither a male or female trait. Both genders may be arrogant, the arrogance of a male is quite different than the arrogance of a female ( males are arrogant about status while women are about looks usually ) but it is usually a trait of either stupid, weak or low quality people and it ' s generated by low self esteem and the need for an ego boost or psychopathic tendencies of making others suffer for pure pleasure. A snob is a social masochist while a dandy is a social psychopathic sadist. Not much to do with genders.

[MakingMeHiiiigh]

@Freija1989

"little one" no need for the haughtiness there. "lost his touch with masculinity, when he doesn't want to be a nerd" I don't agree with you on that as I am for one a big "nerd" I read, play strategy computer games, I play a LOT of chess and read on a daily basis. There is no artificial masculinity... I'm immature I joke around, piss about with no fucks given and without caring what others think I just do me and it comes naturally.

As for the arrogance and ego side, that is only instinct and most guys I have met are like that, it's how nature works for survival and status nothing wrong with it.

The arrogance side comes second nature to me which I can control as I half self Composure and control. I am just wired like that, I like to stand my own ground and not let others push me about. I have seen guys who lack assertiveness and arrogance leading to them being walked over on, pushed, scorned and bullied throughout their life.

[MakingMeHiiiigh]

@Freija1989 Arrogance/assertiveness is associated with control and confidence in one's self... it his does't mean at all the individual is unfriendly or an asshole to others. And yes obviously both genders have these traits whoever you're going off topic and does not necessarily relate to my question.

You automatically assume that Arrogance is associated with stupidity and ego? Stupidity I don't agree with at all, the ego side I do agree with as everyone has an ego to a certain extent where again nature plays a role here to uphold who we are.

[MakingMeHiiiigh]

@Freija1989

I'm not insecure either, I'm not unattractive, have a good body, I get along with people, I'm social I have loyal friends I enjoy my life having set goals and aspirations where I always push myself and strive hard to achieve them. I have no limits

[Freija1989]

I was calling the user LittleSally " little one " because she calls herself, well, " little " in her user name ;)

[MakingMeHiiiigh]

@Freija1989 hahaha oh right well my bad

[LittleSally]

@Freija1989 Nicely put. Love it. =)

[Comawhite666]

Yes to an extent :)
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To me this guy is attractive! I like body hair though on men and not emotionally feminine.

[Freija1989]

So you ' re into elves? Kinky ;)

[Katerina_Belle]

Nope, I'm attracted to alpha males, I kinda like the intimidation because I'm quite a strong person myself.

[MakingMeHiiiigh]

Go to bed it's 1:06am

[Katerina_Belle]

Excuse me, are you telling me what to do?

[MakingMeHiiiigh]

Just go to bed now, run a long

[Katerina_Belle]

I'll do that when you do ☺️

[MakingMeHiiiigh]

No. You get in first

[Katerina_Belle]

Nope

[MakingMeHiiiigh]

That's not the answer I wanted

[Katerina_Belle]

Why does what you want matter?

[MakingMeHiiiigh]

How dare you talk back me

[Katerina_Belle]

Dare? Because I can simple as

[Chico_brah]

I grew up with these types. Rich effeminate pretty boys. Certain types of women are attracted to these types but it seems as if only teenage girls are. I make fun of guys like this all time just to see if they can take it. Some guys just have a baby face and features that make them look like that. Doesn't necessarily make them a pussy but I'll definitely give them shit to find out. A lot of these types of guys are intimidated by me and it's fucking hilarious.

[TonyRyanAgain]

Backstreet boys, lol.

[Cinnamon-Dun]

No, I'm not particularly attracted to them. But I do prefer to be friends with them because they are more approachable. "Manly men" who always scowl aren't approachable nor desirable because they don't give off a decent first impression.

[danyalovettie44]

That's not true at all. In fact I'm writing a mytake about that.

[danyalovettie44]

I don't like "pretty boys"

[MakingMeHiiiigh]

Obviously not all, the question is aimed at the girls who are

[danyalovettie44]

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You mean guys who look like this, right? Feminine boys are a no-no. I like guys with big jaws and some masculine features. This guy pictured above almost looks like a girl.

[MakingMeHiiiigh]

Yeah exactly like that... He looks the type to answer to anyone having no back bone

[danyalovettie44]

lmao yeah exactly. I don't why some girls like guys like them.

[PrincessPie]

girly guys are personally a turn of to me i like masculine men.

[RJGraveyTrain]

I am not personally. Well groomed is fine, girly is not.

[Cloudy25]

Not really, I've noticed it too. I don't mind if he's a little on the skinny side, I mind if he's relatively metrosexual.

[rommmmm]

Its fine as long as they're personality isn't feminine.

[xMiax]

I def like those scene/emo boys... sometimes even more than actual viking-like metal heads but of course, they're not dating material. I would just hand out with them 'cause most of 'em are gaaayuuuu.

[lareina05]

if I wanted him to look like a female I would just go after females. this is a no for me.

[Anonymous]

No, I'm not. I prefer a more masculine type like Orlando Bloom and Chris Hemsworth. Groomed is good, but effeminate is a turn off. I'm not into the Kpop or boyband look. Not a fan of the flamboyant look either.

[Anonymous]

No 100% attracted to manly men, who works hard, can hold his own ground, takes care of his family. But It's not a bad thing to take care of your self get a pardicure, get your hair cut nice, and beard trimmed, have a since of style, and nice shoes, I think that's important for a man to look and feel great inside and out with out being ashamed being too feminine because of our culture.

[Phoenix98]

Dude don't become on of those guys ugh if you go that route our bromance is over and I'll never go suit shopping with you again lmao.

[peachykeenjellybean]

I can be or I can be attracted to manly guys... depends

[This_is_my_username]

Lol I'm dying 😂😂😂😂no defintley not

[MakingMeHiiiigh]

Aha yeah I laughed to myself too hahaha

[Gray_Wolf]

Yeah you are right bro they just suck !

[MakingMeHiiiigh]

Bunch of sassies

[dogfish]

you dont look effeminate so i dont know why you are worried about this

[Blitzkrieger]

the lesbians are i guess.

[Anonymous]

no. give me the tattood bearded badass looking one

[razeoes]

sorry, did someone ask for me?

[Chico_brah]

@razeoes Self proclaimed badass eh.

[razeoes]

self proclaimed statistician. 2 out of a possible 3 are fairly sound odds.

[Bleepasaurus_RexEwww]

I need an example

[MakingMeHiiiigh]

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[Bleepasaurus_RexEwww]

That's a dike

[MakingMeHiiiigh]

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[danyalovettie44]

Lmaoooo that's exactly it!!!

[Bleepasaurus_RexEwww]

I don't know second pic doesn't look that bad but he looks way too young

[danyalovettie44]

Yeah definitely kind of young. I mean, he might change when he's older, but he looks a little too feminine.

[MakingMeHiiiigh]

He looks like a girl... lmao

[Bleepasaurus_RexEwww]

Yeah it's a hard no for me

[sidbby19]

Nope not at all