Why do I like the idea of a relationship but a real life chance of it makes me uncomfortable?

[Anonymous]

I am just trying to know if it's normal among others. To explain what I mean, I like the idea of being in love. However, if someone approaches me real life I don't feel comfortable. A guy told me yesterday that he liked me and although there were no obvious reasons to turn him down, I declined it politely. That just seemed the right thing to do. He tried to reason with me and I didn't like that. I have a coworker who I have to meet daily and since past few days I've been seeing him acting differently with me: getting all flustered and eyes all sparkly while talking to me, staring at me first while entering a room, coming up to me whenever he sees me and many more things. He also asked me once if we could go out for coffee or so after work (because he said he didn't like going alone) and I had said that had lots of work that day. I fear it getting anywhere because a rejection will make things difficult for both of us as we will be at this place for at least coming 5 years. I had an online relationship once and meeting him in person felt scary.

Is it common among people?

[ohsheeT]

O k first of all we are spiritual beings before we are human beings

We are all made from energy.
When you get around somebody that you truly like you will feel that energy like you are slow dancing with it and it's a very beautiful feeling

Don't do things because you feel like you're pressured.
That's the wrong time to do things do things because you want to do them.

And I think having a long dist in's relationship is pobecause. It will teach you things about yourself about who you truly are and energy.
Because, in a long distance relationship, I'm on the West Coast. Let's say you're on the East Coast.
But it's like we are right in the.
Middle of both coast when we talk to each other everyday because it's the energy that connects first

A long distance relationship will teach you so many things. So many positive things about yourself role playing will teach you so many things about yourself.


I dont believe in telling lies but in this case it will take pressure off of you can say you're in a long distance relationship to both of these guys and then you can see how much they respect you by leaving you alone.

I don't care what it is in life that we do. We will know the day that we feel comfortable doing it. And not till then, but people don't understand that I'm going to say you're a very deep person, you see and feel things deeper than most if ur shy sometimes and self conscious about things I'm going to say your and empath. And until you understand that and figure that out.
He's gonna hold you back but once you do then you will understand everything. And things will al start coming to get her for you and will for sure make more since. I truly do believe that's what is happening right there. Its super easy to find out if thats what it is. I'm going to say you are

[Staximus]

Talking to somebody online is not a relationship. Welcome to the real world. Time to learn how to interact with people like a normal person.

[Staximus]

You didn't like the guy as much as he liked you, and fooling around with your coworkers is stupid. Time to find a guy and stop fearing emotional and physical intimacy

[Anonymous]

You some emotional baggage right there.