How I’ll get a boyfriend if boys just stare at me and approach and talk to me😓?

[Anonymous]

I’m short blonde , skinny, and boys just stare at me and come near me and talk 😓

how I’ll ever get a boyfriend this way? 😓

everyone’s terrified to approach me 😓 I need a boyfriend 😓 I’m tired be alone

[ohsheeT]

Well that's a start next time a guy you like approaches you to talk to you look deep into his eyes. Feel as if you are slow dancing with him


This you like the feeling of slow dancing in slow motion the more you can let yourself feel both your energy's feel him press up against your body. When you can feel what that feels like.
You will project your energy. You will project that feeling towards him and you will suck him in like a magnet

But you need to experience that.
With somebody, so you understand what you're trying to do.

Once you learn this, you can be both on each side of the room and you can fill each other. You could be in the east coast i'm on the west coast and you can feel

But when you can feel that then start communicating with your eyes each other

[HawkPerception]

This is a girls issue. Guys WISH we had your issue. The fact is modern women asked for this. Y'all pushed feminism, #MeToo, and choosing bears over men to such an extent that men are now not approaching you in fear of being labeled creeps or being charged with SA. A lot of women are not receptive or polite when being approached and this has deterred men.

So now the solution is roles have to reverse a little. If girls are interested in guys, they should gather up the courage as men always have and approach men and deal with rejection just as men have.

Don't just expect to sit around and look pretty and expect prince charming to sweep you off your feet. Either take life into your own hands or cry about being alone. That's the way things are now.

[FreyaRed]

You have to be a little bit flirty to guys, you have to encourage them to approach you with you body language. Lot of girls have natural talent for that, it seems you have to learn being flirty.

[Asker]

Guys still don’t talk, they approach non verbally by coming near u smiling waiting for u to talk first. No guy wants to talk first anymore.

[Anonymous]

Approach them. They’ll gladly respond if they think you’re interested.

[Travi186]

This is an issue i hear a lot about with both my male and female friends. Both perspectives are going to be a little different. The fact that these guys are coming up to talk to you is a good start. It means something regarding you gave a sign that you were open to being approached. Maybe your body language or you stared back and smiled I don't know only you do. As far as the relationship part, either the guy doesn’t feel confident enough to get to know you for a relationship after the conversation. Im not sure since there's not much context in what you said to pinpoint it. Does your body language show you’re interested? Do you push him a bit to ask? Not saying it’s all on you but sometimes guys need that push or the social cue to know it’s okay to ask. Especially in this day and age.

[Asker]

Guys don’t want a girlfriend. I have to make it clear 100 times to boys now I DONT do friends with benefits. Boy shift want friends with benefits that’s y im alone I haven’t had sex in 3 years cuz im waiting for a boyfriend I don’t want friends with benefits I don’t do hookup I want a boyfriend. I don’t want hear another guy say we r friends one more time 😓

[NoOneEver]

I recommend you do research online instead of asking places like this.

Do some internet searches involving things such as “How to approach men since they never approach me.”

I’m sure there’s both plenty of female authors as well as personal experiences given either through blogs or articles that you can peruse.

these will likely offer you tips and tricks to fixing any issues with your shyness that you may have.

[DryGermanGuy]

„If the mountain will not come to Muhammad, then Muhammad will go to the mountain.“
- Sir Francis Bacon

[dfdfdffffdfdf]

Its because things had changed, in fact there are only minority of men who approach every women they like, which explains why women get cheated often, especially women who only wait.

[Asker]

So woman approach guys now? Woman that wait get cheated on?

[dfdfdffffdfdf]

U dont need to approach , u just give him signs that u want him to be approached

[dfdfdffffdfdf]

Bad English , i mean u give non verbal signs to him that u want him to approach u

[Asker]

I do that but they don’t approach and talk, they approach me no verbally so I talk

[dfdfdffffdfdf]

So they approach u and say nothing? Not even hi?

[Asker]

They approach but don’t talk. like They recrprocate and approach non verbally waiting for me to approach. Smiling, coming near me, etc.

[dfdfdffffdfdf]

I undestand , it not easy to find topic to talk about, may be give him ur contact so he will have time to think about topict to talk when he text or call u later
The other choice would be u who find topic to talk when they approach

[Asker]

It sucks I have to talk first 😞but guys just stare at me and don’t approach me. 😓 so I have to talk first of all guys scared of me?

[dfdfdffffdfdf]

Its not that , i assume these guys have no /little experiences in talking or even flirt to women, thats why they behave like that.
Its internet and social media fault, it make many people lose social skills.

[Asker]

So these guys never had gfs? I find that hard to believe. I never had a boyfriend but it makes me feel not good for guys stare and not come near me

[dfdfdffffdfdf]

Believe me its not u , u can't assume very men are confident and good at approaching women.
If u want to learn more about this matter from guys perspective watch his video
m.youtube.com/watch

[dfdfdffffdfdf]

Very=every

[Asker]

So I have to talk if I see a guy I like? Zero guys approach me. If one guy does approach me it’s an old man or an ugly guy I don’t like.

[Alex-Snow]

Ask one of them out! It is ok to ask a guy out after all

[Anonymous]

Try asking a black guy out. I promise you'll enjoy it. :)

[Richardjd]

You sound exactly my type baby I would definitely ask you out

[Anonymous]

Approach the guys you are interested in.

[LiamS95]

I would love to be your boyfriend