What kind of man backs away when you get close to them, is it worth this push and pull?

[Anonymous]

[OneViewpoint]

You provide no context. I can't give you any answers.

• Maybe he's afraid of commitment.
• Maybe he doesn't feel the same way you do but he's afraid of conflict.
• Maybe he's warm and comfortable and wants to keep things the way they are.
• Maybe you're to timid and afraid to speak up.

[Anonymous]

Maybe he isn't used to a having a close and intimate relationship with anyone.

[jahaims]

Look up fearful avoidant or Dismissive avoidant. Bipolar causes hot and cold too

[Still-alive]

He might be an avoidant if you believe in attachment theory. You should read up on that.

[Pohjolan]

Maybe you should use a different deodorant?

[butterly248]

Read men are from Mars and women are from venus