Rereading that I want to point out. I'm not putting the blame on the person being pushed. I'm just trying to encourage folks in this position to bed decisive and clear in communicating with those being pushy both in words and actions
Then I should cut her off directly?
If you're sure you don't want that kind of thing with her and WON'T anytime soon. Yeah, be direct and clear.That doesn't mean be an ass about it though. Talk to her openly and let her understand where you're coming from, what your life is like, what your goals are, etc.If she's reasonable and rational, which most people are, she'll understand and you can even keep a good friend in the long run. If she's not, step away and give her and yourself space. (You to breathe, her to calm down and work through the rejection. Rejection isn't easy.)
I have already told her I have no intention to date anyone at the moment since I just broke up.I was considering waiting a few months but since her insistence is showing how unpleasant she is, I think it will be a definitive no.I won't be rude or insulting but I'll make it clear I'm distancing and don't want her as a friend either.
Tough call but you gotta take care of yourself first! That sounds like a very reasonable approach and I hope she respects your stance!
Start taking pictures of her shoes😂
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Heartache and worse. If they constantly have their advanced dodged or lied to about why, they'll likely go on operating with a mistaken understanding of how they're coming across.
Oh I agree completely. I think he'll do it the honest way. He seems to be a good dude. Plus this route seems to be sort of the consensus in people's answers so far.
Of course I have.
Anyone has the right to reject someone with or without reason. No one should feel obligated to accept advanced they dont want.
What?That’s crazy...Imagine reversing the genders in that sentence.
Are u gay or something
Probably why it's an anonymous opinion.
@MercuryG probably a guy
Probably a troll
That too. Very trollish.
But what if they want you more for being genuine? Lol
Find me a girl that will want me more after I act like myself. I have never met one.
They exist! And honestly there's more of them than anything else.
Well maybe Im just a piece of shit then because girls keep their distance from me when I act naturally.
Already done 👍.