If a girl loves me, I'll never leave her forever. How do men who break up with their girlfriends do this?

[Slave_submissive]

[aaron13547]

When you love another person it's subconsciously for yourself... like right know you think you wouldn't leave her because it would hurt you to lose the love. That is selfish love is selfish and the sooner a person accepts that the sooner they and figure out what they really want and find true love instead of playing games. No one wants to lose love but things change. It's not something you try to do it just happens people grow together and grow apart one thing is always the same the purpose is you.

[Zack-Bann]

If I don’t love a girl I’m gone


That’s how most men do it


Love can’t be one directional in either direction


I’ve lived through both of these instances and neither one works


And don’t be too lose in your use of the term “forever”
Because present day you shouldn’t he making decisions on behalf of future you
That person will be smarter and more mature and should get his say on the rest of his life as well

[FreyaRed]

I've been told 3 times "I will always love you" and they didn't lie. It was just temporal feeling of them that disappeared or transformed by smallest obstacle few months later.

Such bold statements might sound great for inexperienced 14yo girls but later on it not more worth than a sarcastic smirk.

[Slave_submissive]

I have never had a girlfriend before. Maybe thats the reason i literally worship to women. Thats why i think that i would never break up

[Zionne]

Love doesn’t always mean staying, it can be complicated by fear, timing, or personal issues. Some men leave even when they care because they feel stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure about the future. Staying forever isn’t always a choice dictated by love alone.

[Slave_submissive]

I would be very grateful if i had a girlfriend and never even think about leaving

[WindAtMyBack]

When you say "IF" a girl loves me...

I'm thinking that you've never put it to the test. You are using your imagination, which is very different than being in an actual relationship. They break up because it's not as simple as a girl loving them. There is a whole lot more than simply being in love.

[Nikki1989]

There are only a few reasons to want to be with someone. There can be a million reasons to break up.

[Slave_submissive]

How interesting that I think the exact opposite. I believe we tend to exaggerate negativity and conflicts as people. If I’m happy with someone, their flaws wouldn’t really stand out to me anymore. I think there are always more reasons to love a person. Thanks for your comment 😊

[Anonymous]

You’re sweet but it’s important that you love her because you really feel it and not just because she loves you back

[Slave_submissive]

That is a good point. I think i always wanted to be loved more than i wanted to love.

[Anonymous]

I can't speak from experience because I don't have any, I've never been in a relationship.

Girls I like - Don't like me back.

Girls who like me - Are not my type.

[Anonymous]

Slave_submissivs love life is such a desert, even Africa hasn’t seen a drought this bad. 🫢

[Slave_submissive]

Lol😅

[Abbycado]

There can be tons of reasons to breakup.

[Slave_submissive]

But i think, i would not dare that. I really adore women a lot. Thats why i would not mind any of her negative side

[Abbycado]

What happens if she cheats.

[Slave_submissive]

I would be sad, but I would never leave her. I would even let her continue cheating on me if she really wanted to, as long as she didn't leave me.

[Abbycado]

You are asking for trouble with this attitude.

@HollyK21

[HollyK21]

Therapy. Lots of it lol this is not normal, sir💀

[Slave_submissive]

@HollyK21 i have gone therapy before. It does not help at all

[HollyK21]

In all honesty I think you may be a troll, not even just because of your username, it’s your verbiage in general. But on the off chance that you’re not, my advice is to consider trying another therapist. Seriously, you’re not going to have the same experience with one that you would with another.

[Eddaisy]

Because men are insatiable beings

[Slave_submissive]

I agree with you. Women are generally more stable and long term thinkers. You have more capacity to control your impulses. Thanks for your comment, fellow countrywoman!

[Eddaisy]

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[jahaims]

You haven't been in a relationship

[In_Trance]

Things change