Is it normal that I don’t even want to be friends with girls I find unattractive?

[Slave_submissive]

I can talk comfortably with unattractive guys and even be friends with them, but I honestly don’t even feel like saying hi to an unattractive girl. Please don’t insult me — I’m just expressing my opinion.

[Genie23]

I think it's pretty bad that you want to only get to know girls you find attractive, and be friends with them... while you don't mind being friends with not-so-good-looking guys. It makes me think you're shallow and waiting for an opportunity to get in the good book of your lady friend and get emotionally close to her, so she can't say no to you when you ask her out.

[Anonymous]

There is no requirement for you to be friends with anyone, therefore you are doing no more wrong than if you were to be friends with them.

I don't know if it's normal (meaning common) but it's not really shocking since I can imagine scenarios where you are seen with girl A, who you find unattractive, and this leads girl B, who you find attractive, to conclude that she couldn't be attractive to you since you must like girl A.

Your description of your actions sounds like a strategy to maximize your chance of successfully finding an attractive partner for yourself. Whether the strategy itself is good is another question, but it seems reasonable to me. A lot of girls will try to gaslight you into thinking what you're doing is "unhealthy" or something like that, but it's your life at the end of the day. They aren't the ones suffering if your partner is unattractive or otherwise distasteful.

[Nikki1989]

Sorry, but you sound weak, shallow, insecure, and immature. You have some work to do on yourself.

[Slave_submissive]

Do you have any suggestion to me about this?