I am trying to get a girlfriend anyone have any tips?

[Hotman4536]

[SueShe]

You are the only one that can help that situation.

In order to have a girlfriend, you must be proactive and find friends. They will not just pop up in your life without you being involved in the relation. Best is to join a club, take a hobby where you can meet people with similar interests.

If you are good at one specific occupation, then see if you can find a club or place where others meet that share that passion. The rest will just fall automatically into place. Sharing the same interests with a person is always a good start to get to know that person better because you have common grounds.

But you have to work on yourself first. That would include shyness and social anxiety if those are part of your problem.

You can train your approach, your attitude and expression in front of a mirror for example. Think of what message you want to bring across and rehearse it until you are satisfied. The next step is the most difficult one and that is the one where you have to put in practice what you learned and rehearsed.

But without you wanting and acting upon it, nothing will ever happen. You have to get out of your comfort zone for it to happen. The most important is not to be afraid to fail. If you are rejected, get back onto your feet and try again.

[Zionne]

ChatGPT said:

Start by focusing on being confident, social, and genuinely curious about women — not trying to impress them, just connect. Work on your lifestyle too, since attraction grows from how you live, not just what you say. If you really want to level up fast, check out Jared’s dating class
( https://themodernsuccess.com/ )— he breaks down how to attract women naturally without coming off needy or forced.

[Zack-Bann]

The best tip is: don’t spend your time looking for tips.


Almost anyone you meet will bestow upon you a technique or a philosophy or a reason why it’s a bad idea, or any other form of opinion


Don’t waste your time making sense of all of it.


Just be results oriented and willing to take risks and open to the concept of flirting and seduction in a natural un invasive way


You will be fine


And if you’re out of shape get in shape.
That’s really the basic thing even if many people will try to convince you it’s irrelevant.
It’s not

[Drumlin2001]

There was a young lady on GaG who was after a boyfriend, she was 17, sounded lovely.
User name was cheesefry

[Iron_Man]

Under age? She shouldn’t have been on here looking.

[Nikki1989]

Go out and expand your social circle.

[Abbycado]

You have to get out and be social. That is the best bet.

[slatyb]

Get to know a lot of women without trying to date them. Then it will be easy.

[Chayce]

It’s a numbers game. They don’t remember the misses only the hits so get out there and start talking to women. And don’t be afraid of rejection.

[loveyouoak]

Just be yourself.