My boyfriend tries to make me jealous on purpose by bringing up how good another woman looks and talking to other women what should I do?

[Anonymous]

[ohsheeT]

Well I guess if he can't hear you then let him see you

2 wrongs don't make a right but you can do the same thing.

I mean sooner or later your going to love your self to say for get this. You don't need to be thinking every min of every day. Where is he what is he doing. And you will walk away and find some one that respect themselves and you

[Anonymous]

Your boyfriend's deliberate attempts to make you jealous are unhealthy and a form of emotional manipulation, and you shouldn't feel obligated to tolerate this behavior. The best course of action is to have a direct and serious conversation with him, clearly explaining how his actions make you feel—specifically that they cause pain and erode trust rather than making you feel more attached. Tell him that you see his actions as intentional and that this behavior is unacceptable in a respectful relationship. If he minimizes your feelings, becomes defensive, or continues the behavior after you've clearly set this boundary, you need to seriously evaluate if this relationship is supportive and worth continuing, as a healthy partner would respect your feelings and stop intentionally causing you distress.

[AvaRay]

If someone needs to make u jealous to feel powerful, it only shows how small their sense of self is..

A mature man doesn’t seek validation through comparison but he builds trust, not tension..

When love is real, it reassures..
When ego takes over, it provokes..

So ask yourself, do u want a partner, or a performer who feeds on reactions?

Cause no queen lowers her crown just to compete for attention.. 🥂

[coralodyssey]

Find a new one. Someone who loves you wouldn’t purposely want to make you feel and less than. He shouldn’t be comfortable doing things that could risk losing you. Talking to other women is crazy. Talk to him about it once and if nothing changes, it’s time to leave. You’ll find someone who’ll appreciate you and only have eyes for you.

[OneViewpoint]

Your boyfriend is in the same 18-24 age bracket I assume? Sounds like he is one of the many guys who hasn't matured yet at that age. He's a child trying to cope with adult situations. Don't expect him to change anytime soon. It may take another five years of FAFO for him to become a man. Consider this guy practice and a good learning experience. Don't take him seriously or get too attached. Keep dating other guys. Get some experience. Not all guys are like him.

[Asker]

He's 29 I'm 24

[HighValue]

He is too immature for a serious lasting relationship. Don't waste your life on people like that. Partners are supposed to be loyal to each other and are NOT supposed to try to purposely hurt the other's feelings.

[thatgirl2000]

I would break up with them that's unacceptable and severely disrespectful. As a borderline abusive. You deserve to be praised like the goddess that you are

[Alex-Snow]

He sounds like an ass. Why does he do that? Actually it is kinda immature of him also. I think you could do way better... maybe move on. How old is he?

[Asker]

29...

[Alex-Snow]

Ummm how well do you two get along otherwise? Is he still fun to be with? Is the sex with him still fantastic or just ok?

[Unap0logetic_]

You should leave him.. I dated an asshole who did this things and he never changed. In fact, it got way worse.

[Vegasrunner]

You need to work on your self esteem. It sounds like you are insecure.

[HollyK21]

Leave him?

[DrPepper12]

His own medicine?

[qwerty2469]

You should try harder.

[slatyb]

Date someone else.