Girls, why should and shouldn’t he be nervous to ask you out?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

After high school a million guys said ‘I always liked you,’ which I never knew. Some of them I would have gone out with, but they never asked. My answer to any particular guy would be the same whether he asks or not, it's either yes or no. But if you don't ask, it's always a no. And I decline them politely, and I don't gossip about them with my friends, so there's no harm in trying, with me at least, and I hope most girls are like that. The ones I have trouble with are the ones who won't take no for an answer. I will stay friends with you, but don't pester me to go out with you all the time after I've said no.

[bunnyboo24]

he shoouldnt be. I think asking someone out doesn't have to b direct either it can be like "what type of food do you like" and then when she says example "i like mexican food" you can say " i know a great taco place in X have you been there" and then see how she responce

[Asker]

If she declines should he be lose all self confidence?

[bunnyboo24]

not at all you dont evan have to ask until she shows interest anyways and if she declines dont take it personally