Why is friends with benefits considered a downgrade from a relationship? Isn't it the same thing?

[heruncommonsense]

[ohsheeT]

To be 100 % honest. I feel in. some case's it's better than a relationship at least for me

When I'm in a relationship I always try to be or show the best of me and I'm focus and serious that I forget the fun side of me

With a. friends with benefits there is no commitment there is no responsibility
But there us a true friend ship even a love you have for this person and you will care and protect her
I can be myself make jokes laugh, love, love care. I can be anything and everything I want to be without being looked at in a certain way

So for me it's better than a relationship sometimes
Because you allow yourself to be yourself without any worries, no hassles. So for me, in a lot of ways, it's better than a relationship for sure. I think

You meet you, make love you bond without worrying about anything. You say Goodbye and you communicate in all different sorts of ways.\n When either you're not together or you are together.

[ohsheeT]

I honestly feel that. Maybe that's what i'm looking for
Weather in real life are you in a LDR
To bring me back to dating again .

[heruncommonsense]

Males never commit.

[ohsheeT]

Sure they do. Well wait I can't speak for others only myself but your right to but when I find that person I do

[heruncommonsense]

Males admit that they all cheat if they have the opportunity

[ohsheeT]

Not all male. But once again I can only speak for myself
When you meet someone and things start happening and you start to like each other something special happens
And if your like me you want to be the best for her you want to make everything about her and you treat her so she know she see it and feel your every word. You speak ever word you speak with your eyes he will make you feel as if the the only girl in the world I dont believe in cheating if I was to think about cheating. It would mean I'm not happy. So I would break up before I went out on the girl I was with
That just because who I am and what I believe

[heruncommonsense]

Nah, you males admit that you're all the same.

[ohsheeT]

Sorry can't do that

[Alex-Snow]

I do not see it that was. Some people are just as happy with a friends with benefits. I'm in one currently while in college and it is working great. Sure I had girlfriends in high school but I do not want a relationship right now, just sex. Message me if u want to chat about it or want more deets from my point of view.

[Unap0logetic_]

This type of situation typically only benefits the guy.. I haven’t met any woman who hasn’t been hurt or negatively affected by this type of situation.

[Nikki1989]

Yes, a friend is having a relationship. It is just on a much lower level of importance and significance.

[heruncommonsense]

friends with benefits aren't actually friends.
friends with benefits and relationships both just mean having sex

[jazzy34]

No. Friends with benefits is an arrangement. It’s when you fuck around with someone (literally) from time to time and nothing else. No romance. No dates. None of that. Strictly meeting up to fuck. A relationship, on the other hand, does involve romance, going on dates, doing fun things together, etc. Sex is not the primary activity in a romantic relationship.

[heruncommonsense]

Relationships are just sex

[jazzy34]

If you think a relationship is just sex, you have a LONG way to go. Gosh, hookup culture has ruined what it means to have an actual relationship. 🤦🏾‍♀️ A romantic relationship consists of getting to know your partner, meeting each other’s family and friends, going on dates, having fun together, sticking by each other through ups and downs, and sometimes, leads to marriage.

[heruncommonsense]

? Males only do all that for sex and sadism (so that they have access to a woman they can abuse)

[heruncommonsense]

I am a virgin. I obviously dont engage in hookup culture.

[RHK36]

For you it's the same if you can't recognize the difference. Doesn't matter if you keep chasing or allow red flags around you. Grow up and heal.

[In_Trance]

It's not at all the same thing.
But I can see why you're so naive

[seeyounexttuesday]

of course it's a downgrade. friends with benefits doesn't entail the care a relationship has and growth. It's just bumpin uglies.

[heruncommonsense]

So is a relationship. All males hate all women, and you always have.

[seeyounexttuesday]

Take your meds

[MasterKS]

friends with benefits is just for sex.

[heruncommonsense]

So is a relationship.

[heruncommonsense]

That's literally what a relationship is.

[MasterKS]

@heruncommonsense relationship may lead to love, marriage and family, friends with benefits is just to enjoy open sex life not more than that.

[heruncommonsense]

When males say "Love", they mean sex.
Males get married in order to secure access to sex.
Males have families because they want to have sex with their daughters.

[MasterKS]

@heruncommonsense good sense, did your male family members like father, brother also do so?

[heruncommonsense]

My dad had me and my sister by accident. He never married, but he dumped my mom. He whines about single moms even though he's the one who ended the fucking relationship.
My stepdad raped my stepsister
My only brother is 10

[MasterKS]

@heruncommonsense That reflects in your thoughts, dark past ruining present.

[heruncommonsense]

All males are the same