This is a question for the girls, do you know why it took over 2 years for me to be attracted to my genius I. Q. boyfriend, here is the answer?

[jennifer_bloom]

When I was 19 I said a prayer to God that I never fall in love with a man I am not in a position, role, opportunity, or ideal benefit scenario to marry, so until we are both ready for marriage, I can 100% shut off my feelings for him, even if he is the most handsome man alive, and the most intelligent and the most virtuous too.

Now I am not saying he is all those things, I am just saying there is no 100 / 100 guy on earth that can attract me against my will.

[Zionne]

That actually makes a lot of sense — it sounds like you trained your mind to connect love with readiness and alignment, not just attraction. It’s rare, but some people really can set emotional boundaries that strong when they’re clear on what they want long term.