How to spot a womanizer?

[Anonymous]

So i have been dating this guy , he is super friendly nice and charming with everyone. and of course got female friendships also. so my question is how can someone spot the difference between a guy who is a flirt ir a womanizer in general, or is being just nice and friendly without any I'll intentions involved? because some men can be diplomatic right.. also what should be the deal breaker if he does any of that which is not normal with female friendships?

[slatyb]

You will find out soon enough. If you don' t try to trade sex for commitment, then you can't be "played". Have sex if you want sex, never for another reason. Most relationships don't last. If you have sex early, then you will have had sex with men who didn't stay around long. There's nothing wrong with that, it's a choice.

[BarryLiverstone]

A womanizer in general will not prioritize his SO.. be it his girlfriend or fiancé or wife. He’s more likely to spend time with other women and he will appease his SO just enough so she still accepts his behavior.


You don’t know if your boyfriend is a womanizer? Well does he meet your needs and allow you to meet his? Does he plan one on one dates and share intimacy with you or are you just arm candy as he’s out being social?

[BarryLiverstone]

Deal breakers are about communicated boundaries. If you are in an exclusive relationship you would talk to him and agree on what’s cheating and what’s acceptable behavior. And if bad decisions are made and boundaries are crossed how do you two work it out together?

[PeachyPie93]

I personally never trust dudes with female friends because they always have the hope to sleep with them and most already have once or twice.

[Anonymous]

See if he flirts with other girls

[BarryLiverstone]

He could still flirt without any intent

[Opinion Owner]

@BarryLiverstone still a sign of a player

[BarryLiverstone]

Could be. Or it’s the sigh of a confident person who can be social and give compliments.

[Opinion Owner]

@BarryLiverstone possible. But guys who flirt are rarely loyal to their partners.

[BarryLiverstone]

Some are and some are not. I’m just saying that her boyfriend sounds charming and that attribute likely helped her notice him. So just because they are now dating she shouldn’t expect him to not be himself and turn off that charm.

[Opinion Owner]

@BarryLiverstone you raise a good point

[BarryLiverstone]

Thanks. And I agree that a guy who flirts with lots of girls and may be single could be a red flag. Especially if he never has had a serious girlfriend

[Opinion Owner]

@BarryLiverstone also true. But yeah, some charming guys can be very loyal.