Why is it so hard to keep a handsome guy and trust him not to have an affair?

[Anonymous]

I’ve dated a lot of guys that in my opinion (my opinion) are handsome such as Hispanic and some Asian mixes. I discovered a lot of them are so hard to trust and get along with. They act arrogant and self absorbed and it’s hard for me to trust that they can be faithful since lots of other girls find them attractive too. Usually my relationship with them ends awfully. What are your opinions?

Updates

10 mo

And tips on how to not get hurt? Please and thanks

[Anonymous]

He's got options, duh. And whether you want to hear it or not. A lot of those options are better than you. Sorry, I hate being the one to tell people there's no Santa Claus. Sometimes in life you gotta date down a bit to get a good partner. Don't want to do that, that's fine. But then you better start learning to share.😆

[RavVid]

That is the joy and the hurt of dating the sexiest ones.

The only guarantee you do have is the partners morals and principals which is why guys like a low body count in a girl partner.

[Nikki1989]

Men will be men. Being handsome doesn't make much difference.

[beefcakebradybatson]

I'm a cover boy handsome one-woman man ala my father. (Dad didn't have my boyish good looks, but he was true-blue to my mother in their 53 years of marriage.)

[Asker]

Wow so you’re a handsome boy that is good
to women?

[RedInnocent69]

Because, guys are narcissistic, and he has many other options

[Asker]

How can I safely not get hurt?

[RedInnocent69]

Avoid the ones that are arrogant and self-absorbed. They have to want you too, or they’re not going to be vested in your relationship

[Staximus]

You need to change the way you pick guys if you keep picking the wrong ones

[jahaims]

Because you are picking based on looks and not their morals and values