Why does everyone accuse you of being double minded or hypocritical?

[Summeroflove]

I get some people (some of the same people) talk out of both sides of their mouth. But my gosh people there is two extremes… And if you are somwhere in the middle. People say “well in one post you said this and in another post you said that” and they didn’t take the time to read and comprehend the context.

[DishLady]

I know that expression, "talk out of both sides of their mouth". Haven't heard it in a while.

I also know people like that. They talk to you very kindly when they want something from you but badmouth you behind your back or "playfully insult" and put you down.

It's a sign that they're insecure about themselves and would rather create a scandal than to talk about themselves or risk being discovered as a good for nothing.

[WhitneySnow]

That has never happened to me that I can remember. But I get why that would be frustrating to you.

[Summeroflove]

It’s like talking to a brick wall to some people here. It really is…

[Summeroflove]

Especially when they legitimately say one thing and then say the total opposite.

[WhitneySnow]

I get it. I try to avoid getting into arguments, but sometimes it happens.

[Summeroflove]

Happens to me too lol. And you can tell when they stop making arguments to refute what I’m saying. They just turn to personal attacks.

[Summeroflove]

Usually that means I’ve won lol…. Or they change the subject

[FreyaRed]

People say I'm blunt like a wrecking ball but I don't hear much complains about my hypocrisy.
Of course some left leaning mental acrobats accused me of being a "bigot", when I wanted they explain what makes them reveal this conclusion, just emotional driven nonsense came as reply. I think it's irrelevant in mature discussion.

[Summeroflove]

I don’t even bother with them anymore

[Summeroflove]

They are the worst about saying one thing. Then another

[Bitter_Sweet94]

Maybe because people only see the surface.

Most of us change our minds when we learn, grow, or see things differently, that’s not hypocrisy, that’s being human.

But some people prefer simple labels over understanding the full picture.

[Summeroflove]

That is different I can say one thing 10 years ago and say another now. But that’s different then just constantly speaking out of both sides of my mouth.

[Summeroflove]

As well as when it’s two totally different contexts. Like…. If I was explaining the rules of football and then later talked about volleyball. Those are two different things.

[Bitter_Sweet94]

Exactly, context matters a lot.

Saying one thing in one situation and another in a completely different scenario isn’t hypocrisy, it’s adapting to circumstances or switching focus.

The problem is when someone contradicts themselves in the same context without reason, then it starts feeling like they’re double minded.

[Summeroflove]

Exactly

[Summeroflove]

EXACTLY….

[RandomGirl42]

I just wanted you to know I'm not going to take the time to read or comprehend the context and u might say I'm on drugs but I'm really just overstuffed on tryptophan from Thanksgiving leftovers.

[Summeroflove]

You admitted you party and so drugs lol

[MrChinaski]

You know there's a lot more tryptophan in many other common foods (e. g. cheese) compared with Turkey... and that clinical trials show no evidence of sleep-inducing effects of tryptophan, right? Yes, I had to be that person... sorry.

[RandomGirl42]

@bddddd Oh, thanks a lot. You just HAD to be that person and now that you've shown @summeroflove there's no evidence of sleep-inducing tryptophan effects he's gonna' think I was just passing out from drugs since I admitted on the forum that I party but I might've been drinking at the time.

[Summeroflove]

@bddddd she’s doing harder drugs then that lol. If these tweakers would spend their money on food not drugs. Maybe they wouldn’t have to panhandle

[Summeroflove]

Okay lol.

[RandomGirl42]

lol, actually we grow/can a lot of our own food and grow our own drugs (weed) and make our own booze (Wine and hard ciders) so, don't worry, I won't ask u for 5 dollars. 🤣

In all seriousness, I actually did get into some hard drugs back in college. It was a very qwik ride down a dead end street, so to speak, and I will NOT do them again.

So, anything after that is just me being naturally "tweaky". 😊

[Summeroflove]

More then weed and drugs. Probably laced with fent. That’s what you all say. When the cops catch you they probably aren’t your pants 😆

[Summeroflove]

Well at least you learned…. I can respect that. But you may have fried your brain based off things you said on here including in your bio.

[RandomGirl42]

Lol! Well, thank you for at least reading my bio. 🤣 I'm always amazed how many times I get asked a question that is answered if they just read it in the first place but oh well. And whose pants are these?

[Summeroflove]

You’re the I smoked crack til my teeth fell out type

[WonderingManII]

On GAG I don't care cause these people never get close enough to me to understand me. Only one person on GAG did this to me, and I think they might have left.

[AngryCarl2]

Generally they don't. Sounds like a "you problem".

[IamRight]

Leftists do it to me because I’m not a leftist.

[queenofcardio]

People over analyze things way too much

[Anonymous]

They don't, people who really know me are aware of the fact that I'm very consistent, even when I appear to be "different".