Am I bad for not wanting to date a fat person?

[Anonymous]

I used to be fat. Became skinny. I put so much effort to be skinny. I still continue to take care of myself and I dont wanna go back. Now I dont wanna date a fat man. Am I bad?

[RedTiefling]

We don't get to pick what we're attracted to. People are born liking what they like. It may sway a bit depending on experiences/trauma, but don't feel bad about it.

[RedTiefling]

But don't be mean

[Asker]

Im not mean to them. If anything I can also help them to lose weight.

[RedTiefling]

Just be careful about how you offer to help 😂

[Asker]

Lol I won't say a word if they dont ask my help. Maybe I'll just focus on my own.

[RedTiefling]

Perhaps they'll be inspired by you, who knows.

[Mpodere]

No there Is nothing of wrong about your preference

Do you consider that man fat?

[Asker]

Not fat. Id say skinny fat? But you can still improve

[Mpodere]

Yes I need to lose some fat on stomach and lower belly

[Anonymous]

Dating a fit dude triggers your body dysmorphia. Fair but I’d still work on that if I were you.

[Anonymous]

That’s your right. But don’t be mean to them.

[Phoenix98]

No it's your right to want to be with someone healthy. But at the same time be respectful don't be mean or rude towards them.

[DonaldDarko]

Why on earth would you think not dating fat people is bad?

[Anonymous]

No. Everybody has their preferences. I would want to be in a relationship with someone with a similar view on health.

[Alex-Snow]

Not at all. Good for you on taking care of ur body. It is ur life and ur choice.

[BarryLiverstone]

It’s best for both people to be healthy. You are attracted to healthy guys right? That’s normal.

[Anonymous]

It's good you gotten healthier physically. Now you just need to work on getting healthy mentally.👍

[Anonymous]

Nope, it's not bad, it's just preference, I wouldn't date a fat person either.

[RavVid]

No. None of us should be fat.

[beenherebefore]

No, you're not bad. It's a preference.

[Staximus]

If you're actually skinny maybe

[jahaims]

No lol