Boyfriend not replying me after he had a surgery?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend had a major surgery and after the surgery he isn’t replying me (stays online all day) I want to be there for him, what’s happening to him?
Long distance relationship, brain surgery, I want to be there for him, I fear calling because its still so new and he hadn’t even seen my texts. He stays online all day. Help me out please.

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7 mo

(Any guy, girl who went through such situations or surgery please help out)

[AngryCarl2]

Talk to someone at the hospital. He's probably semi-conscious.

[Asker]

He stays active on social media

[itsannalee]

Contact the family or friends.

[Asker]

I dont know them personally

[Abbycado]

How do you know he stays online all day?

[Asker]

His social media status says ‘active’ , shares memes, comments on random stuff

[In_Trance]

When was the last time you saw him in person

[Asker]

We were planning to meet this Christmas

[In_Trance]

That doesn't answer my question

[Asker]

Yet to meet!

[In_Trance]

Shocker

[Asker]

Yes it is

[Anonymous]

Why did he have surgery?

[Asker]

Brain swelling

[Opinion Owner]

It it’s tej run

[Asker]

What is tej run?

[Opinion Owner]

Tejsvi

[Asker]

I don’t know anyone named Tejasvi 😅

[Asker]

Who is Tejasvi’s boyfriend

[Opinion Owner]

I said tejsvi

[Asker]

Sorry but I’m not getting what you are trying to say. Can you please explain it

[Anonymous]

Maybe he is still recovering.

[Asker]

That’s what I’m assuming, but a one-liner text telling me he is okay won't hurt either🥲

[Opinion Owner]

I agree, he should send you a text.

[Asker]

He texted a heartfelt message 30-40mins prior surgery, promised to contact asap. But post-surgery, things changed. Haven’t received anything yet.

[Opinion Owner]

I suppose you should be more patient, maybe he'll send more.

[Asker]

Hoping for the best.
But the online activity and silence since a month pinches my heart

[Opinion Owner]

I understand, and I wish you good luck... I hope you'll get his reply.

[Asker]

Is that some kind of avoidant behaviour?

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe, I guess it's possible.