Guys I am quite upset. It seems a lot of the time my boyfriend doesn't really pay attention to me, like he's lazy.
He's loyal, gives me words of affirmations and takes me out on dates. He insisted I meet his mum after 3 months of dating and is insisting on meeting my family this Christmas.
He wants to get me a ring early next year too (I think he's moving way too fast but he's trying to be religious I guess. We argued about this countless of times where he says he's going at my pace but I don't feel listened to).
I had surgery booked for today and I told him about it when I found out 2 weeks ago, last week and the day before yesterday. I expressed just how anxious I was and he completely forgot today.
I slept early last night hinting that I had to be up early and he said nothing. I texted him today saying he forgot about my surgery and I'm tired and won't be able to talk and he said 'Sure sleep well <3', no apology or anything.
It was also my birthday a couple of weeks ago and although he called me at 12am he didn't bother to send me a gift but says he wants to.
I feel very upset, can someone please offer me their advice?
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