My boyfriend forgot I had surgery today? (Page 2)

Anonymous · 2022-11-25T13:30:32Z

Guys I am quite upset. It seems a lot of the time my boyfriend doesn't really pay attention to me, like he's lazy. He's loyal, gives me words of affirmations and takes me out on dates. He insisted I meet his mum after 3 months of dating and is insisting on meeting my family this Christmas. He wants to get me a ring early next year too (I think he's moving way too fast but he's trying to be religious I guess. We argued about this countless of times where he says he's going at my pace but I don't feel listened to). I had surgery booked for today and I told him about it when I found out 2 weeks ago, last week and the day before yesterday. I expressed just how anxious I was and he completely forgot today. I slept early last night hinting that I had to be up early and he said nothing. I texted him today saying he forgot about my surgery and I'm tired and won't be able to talk and he said 'Sure sleep well <3', no apology or anything. It was also my birthday a couple of weeks ago and although he called me at 12am he didn't bother to send me a gift but says he wants to. I feel very upset, can someone please offer me their advice?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Post Opinion

1 likes

What Girls & Guys Said

Opinion

Show Popular Opinions(20)

CuriousMufuxka Follow
Guru Age: 45

1 y
1.4K opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Oh.. LDR. Yeah every month or so still won't work. I suggest your next appointment being a split.

1

0 Reply
standardguy Follow
Explorer Age: 45

1 y

Perhaps he is not sufficientley emotional involved into you. Check your feelings

1

0 Reply
Anonymous
(18-24)

1 y

I hope you are feeling ok after your surgery.
You say you are afraid you won't find better. I don't know how you can do much worse.
This relationship will not work out and will not make you happy.

0

0 Reply
legalboxers Follow
Master Age: 47

1 y
2.5K opinions shared on Relationships topic.

speedy recovery! feel better!

1

2 Reply
- Asker
  
  1 y
  Thank you!!
  
  Reply
- legalboxers
  
  1 y
  hugs!!
  
  Reply
Anonymous
(30-35)

1 y

He's just not that into you

1

1 Reply
- Opinion Owner
  
  1 y
  It's what someone does not what they say.
  If you get married and there are already problems you are signing a contract to that.
  
  Reply
Anonymous
(45 Plus)

1 y

Why yes, I will have a beer.

1

0 Reply
Anonymous
(30-35)

1 y

He doesn't sound like much of a boyfriend.

1

0 Reply
Anonymous
(45 Plus)

1 y

actions speak louder then cheap meaningless words

1

0 Reply

Home > Relationships > Questions > My boyfriend forgot I had surgery today?

My boyfriend forgot I had surgery today? (Page 2)

What Girls & Guys Said

We're glad to see you liked this post.