So I am a 19 years old girl that has older friends. recently I was asked out by my friend who is a 35years old. should I date him?

[Anonymous]

My friend is still struggling financially and we met at work. He is a typical good guy but I have just never had it in mind to date him. I don't want to break the friendship or make it awkward. Should I just agree because it seemed the most easy way out. What do I do. Please bear in mind that I am also very broke and I am still in college. None of us are financially in a good place. I am a Christian but he doesn't really believe in religion.

[Abbycado]

I wouldn't. That's my personal opinion. You start dating a friend and things go to hell and you lose a friend. Double bad that he is a coworker. This is a hard no.

[Anonymous]

I don't think age is really all that significant, here. But to me it sounds like you're not really interrupted in him. If that's the case, I'd suggest you say no. But it you are st all interested, then I'd suggest you say yes. You can still date and go on cheap dates. If money is an issue for you both, just make it clear you want to do things with him but can't break the bank in the process.

[Staximus]

Fooling around with your co-workers is shitting in your own backyard.

[SarahP080106]

Do what you feel is right, a date doesn't have to be expensive to be fun.

My main advice would be to don't lead him on but if you are attracted to him then no harm.

[itsannalee]

If he struggles financially, let him focus on job and make money instead of dating.

[Anonymous]

He is going to want sex and if you won't do that then it's not fair to him at age 35.

[Anonymous]

If you like him, and if he likes you, then you should.

[aceleon]

if you are okay with dating your uncle.

[ImalwaysrightOK]

Only if you're attracted to him.

[jahaims]

He is a loser hitting on a kid.

[Evsisa]

No you shouldn’t.