On a scale of 1-10 with 10 being the easiest, how hard do you think dating is for the opposite sex?

[Awesomesauce2005]

1-2

3-4

5-6

7-8

9-10

10+

A total of 27 votes were cast: 8 girls and 19 guys. See detailed results

[NathanDavis]

I can only speak for the ones I've actually dated with... and well, dating was not a problem whatsoever

as for others... dating is not the "difficulty"

the difficulty is in the many other things and short comes they do carry into a date or project on the people they try to date, lol

[NerdGuy89]

Women have life on easy mode

[Awesomesauce2005]

They don't realize that they aren't being oppressed. It's gone so far that men are oppressed now

[Chocolatetwopoint3]

another incel.

[NerdGuy89]

@imjustagirl15 Another misandrist

[Brady]

@imjustagirl15
shut up

[Chocolatetwopoint3]

y'all r so ungrateful, society was literally built for and by you, YET you alwaysss complain

[Anonymous]

I think dating sucks for almost anyone regardless of their gender. Both sexes have their pros and cons.

[Awesomesauce2005]

I think most can agree that women by far have the upper hand

[Opinion Owner]

You already went into this having the mindset that women have it easier, and that’s your own personal bias. I disagree with women having it easier, both sexes have the same expectations.

[Awesomesauce2005]

Ah, but women get away with picking a crappy guy cause the get everything in the divorce so no, it's not equal

[Opinion Owner]

So if the guy is crappy then the woman gets everything in the divorce?

[Awesomesauce2005]

Even if the guy is nice and the woman is selfish she gets everything

[Opinion Owner]

Not true, but I’m not going to argue with you about it. I looked at your page and you have such a woah is me sort of guy. You complain about women every chance you get as a miserable single man. It’s your identity.

[Awesomesauce2005]

Maybe if women weren't so entitled I wouldn't be saying the things I'm saying.

[Opinion Owner]

You’re in the minority.

[Awesomesauce2005]

could've fooled me

[Opinion Owner]

Because you don’t know how to look outside yourself and not be a selfish individual. Your sole experience doesn’t speak for the masses and thank god for that.

[trumpetplayerforlife]

I feel like men have the short end of the stick they get catfished and scammed more then woman do

[AviatorTom]

It's pretty easy for women to get dates. Getting good dates that may lead to a relationship is a bit more difficult.

[Jammannn]

Its beyond easy for an average women to meet someone on an app. Whilst an average man might get 1-2 chances a year if they're lucky. Dating in this sense isn't much of a comparison.

Men struggle with visibilty, women have too many options. One is clearer preferable; would you rather go shopping at a store? Or wait until it opens.

here's a tinder experiement from 5 years ago. Its only gotten worse, post covid.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/DZTIbHIsIYw

[petitedollbabee]

3-4, as a lot of guys lack the emotional maturity to be appealing to women, making their dating life significantly harder. It’s usually not the guys fault, as it’s the way they were raised, but it is their responsibility to fix that as an adult via therapy or self work.

[Awesomesauce2005]

A lot of women lack emotional and financial maturity as well. It goes both ways

[petitedollbabee]

Okay

[NerdGuy89]

Men know its easier and safer to not be emotionally open with women.

[Subgurl]

I think that entirely depends on the individual. 99% of it boils down to people skills and who/how/when you’re approaching others.

There is this misinformation that all women just want some 6”+, body builder, in finance with a trust fund and that’s just not true for the vast majority of the population.

it’s not dating that’s the the problem, it’s other issues.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

People who are considered to be less attractive by masses and males who have low income as per average standard women and look average and are short have harder time to get a date and also to mate..

That's the real truth in most cases for men or women

[Nikki1989]

Dating is not hard for anyone if you actually have something to offer.

[Awesomesauce2005]

That's not true. Men who have everything can get a woman but she is only as loyal as the money in his bank account

[RavVid]

I was inclined to 10 as easiest for women but but some girls claim they never have interest from men so I knocked it down to 7 to 8. For most I think it is 10+ easy.

[Chocolatetwopoint3]

men really have life on easy mode, just walks up to a girl and gets laid

[Awesomesauce2005]

Funniest joke I've seen so far 😂

[Chocolatetwopoint3]

yeah it really is funny when they complain about life as if they dont live life on easy mode🤣🤣

[Awesomesauce2005]

Maybe you should open your eyes and realize maybe you aren't a victim and other people have to deal with a lot more than you do

[Chocolatetwopoint3]

ok so tell me whats so hard about your life?

i mean its not like society was literally built FOR men, y'all have no problems at all and y'all made patriarchy and complain about problems other men made.

just stop whining and accept you’re not always a victim.

[Awesomesauce2005]

Men easily get taken advantage of in divorces, men get financially taken advantage of on dates where the woman has no intention of staying solely for the purpose of getting free food. I do believe there are some good women out there still but the majority of themare liberal feminist victims of their own life choices.

[Awesomesauce2005]

Have you ever heard of Norah Vincent?

[Chocolatetwopoint3]

then dont marry or get with bad women?

[Chocolatetwopoint3]

nope, who’s that?

[Chocolatetwopoint3]

and is that seriously all of your problems? you’ve got to be kidding me💀 and men dont have it easy smh… just dont date

[Awesomesauce2005]

Look her up. Read her book. You are too young to not realize that men have it hard and women get everything handed to them in this modern world. You aren't oppressed. If anything at this point men are but we are too prideful to come out and admit that.

[Chocolatetwopoint3]

And what about her? women dont get everything handed to them, the same way men dont have it hard in society. women have to work twice as hard to be seen as important or relevant while a man can just live.

stop making up problems that dont exist.

[Chocolatetwopoint3]

if women get everything handed to them, give me examples, and try it for yourself

[Awesomesauce2005]

If you walked into a bar and wanted free drinks, all you would have to do is insinuate that you were interested in dating or maybe something more and you would get them. You are so ungrateful 😡

[Chocolatetwopoint3]

oh wow i have it so easy because i get free drinks! what more could a girl want, maybe to be treated equally to men? but i get free drinks so i shouldn't complain, right?

[Jammannn]

Its beyond easy to date as an average women. Average man = fucked.

Feminism hasn't done anything in a while but spawn hate and anyone still preaching it in the west is detached, because there's nothing left for it here. The men you're envisioning having power are such a small minority.
Even "men really have life on easy mode, just walks up to a girl and gets laid" Thats only something a top 5-10% attractive guy will achieve. If you're a women you can just walk up to anyone and get laid at a much much higher success rate than a man of your equal counterpart. So its not even a pro of being male? Feminists are so delusional

[Awesomesauce2005]

@Jammannn I'm pretty sure this one is a bot or a delusional hardcore feminist lol

[Chocolatetwopoint3]

As long as you’re funny and nice y'all can get any girl bffr. Men only want to use us, not love us.

And another incel who doesn't know what feminism is🤦‍♀️ this education system is so ass istg.

[beefcakebradybatson]

About three for most men;seven for most women.

[Kelly6]

@Awesomesauce2005 3-4

[queenofcardio]

Maybe 5-6.