Why everytime my boyfriend tries to argue with me, I start feeling sick like getting lighthead or my head hurts?

[Anonymous]

[HollyK21]

Obviously if you want an accurate diagnosis you should see a professional, there could be an underlying issue that you aren’t aware of. But just for the sake of discussion I’d say that you don’t like confrontation, and something about the way he tries to argue makes you uncomfortable to the point that you get sick.

[DishLady]

I get migraines when I argue with certain folks as well. Aggravation makes your insides clench and drains you of your energy, not only physically but psychologically, so this is just a natural reflection of your frustration and anger.

[slatyb]

It's hard to say without knowing how it starts, what he says, and how you were raised. This reaction is often a result of childhood trauma. If possible, you might want to discuss this with a professional counselor.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

... Maybe you're actually that sick of being with your boyfriend, or maybe his reactions are reminding you of something, someone, in your history who really made you sick?

[Summeroflove]

Because it’s exhausting to argue

[Nikki1989]

Sounds like panic attack symptoms.