What do you think about a girl that has been married seven times? If you are a guy would you get into a relationship with a girl that has?

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Screenwriter · Accepted Answer

Relationships involve two people. It is usually never ONLY one person's fault. It sounds like this woman gets married too quickly when perhaps she should only have continued relationships to test out how well things were going over time.

Or, this woman has a faulty "picker." This could be due to bad male examples she had growing up, or NO male examples. If she had an alcoholic, drug addicted or abusive father, this might be what she knew and she chooses men of the same ilk: recipes for disaster. Or with no example, she never recognizes men who are ill suited to her or marriage.

But, to me, the most telling example of why NOT to choose this person is she says it was all THEIR fault. I would say seven marriages means this person is an unlikely candidate for long-term relationships. It would seem they keep repeating the same error, ad infinitum, whatever that error may be.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

My best friend and I were out to eat once, and this rando slid into our booth and started flirting with her. I was like damn this dude is BOLD! She was kind of into it until he bust out with, so, I just want to be honest, I have four kids, and 3 ex wives, k, but I'm straight. I take care of them. We were in college at the time, and you might as well have splashed cold water in my friends face, because oh hell no.

My rule of dating people with ex husbands, is once divorced, cool, everyone was once, young dumb, and full of..., twice, alright, not great, but s--t happens, maybe he was a nightmare trap, three...it's you, it's definitely you because we're just not learning any applicable life lessons like maybe slow down and get to know their level of crazy or understand your own before you say yes. Seven is nuts. All I can think is must be rich.

HawkPerception · Accepted Answer

I'm not dumb enough to get married to someone with those chances of success lol. Sounds like a girl who can't filter men well or has some serious commitment issues. It says she can't stick it through thick and thin. A girl who's been married seven times is more likely to leave the moment there's any little thing she gets upset about.

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

No, 2 times is the limit and that’s pushing it , 7 times pretty much means she is the problem

AviatorTom · Answer

I would first wonder what happened to her husbands. Did they die? Under what circumstances? It's she a serial killer?

If I was single, I might date her, and hookup with her, but there would be zero chance of me becoming number right.

ohsheeT · Answer

I would go out with her just because i'm curious.
 Why something would start and end so many times with a new person? Everytime

Zack-Bann · Answer

I think after botching the gig 7 times it’s time she accepts marriage isn’t for her

It’s not an insult. Marriage is not for everyone.

She can be perfectly happy in a lifelong relationship without the traditional marital obligations (maybe)

But an 8th marriage won’t solve her problem

RingOfFire · Answer

If you've been married 7 times that's bad enough. But if you then blame it on being the "guys fault," that is even worse because it shows that you have not learned anything even after 7 marriage. No, I would not get into a relationship with such a woman.

Sadly, my niece who is now in her mid 30s has already been married and divorced twice. I love her to death but she has a really bad picker for guys. And she is extremely attractive so she gets any guy she wants which in her case is not helping things.

HighValue · Answer

Not interested at all. For one, that shows that she consistently makes bad decisions and doesn't learn from them.

2. She has had more than 5 lifetime partners and wouldn't be able to form a strong pair bond.

3. She likely had casual sex and that greatly contributed to her previous relationships failing due to not being able to pair bond.

Purpleronnie · Answer

I wouldn’t be making a decision about whether to be in a relationship with her ‘just’ on the basis of how many times she had been married previously.

A woman being relationship material is based on a considerable number of factors but is certainly be curious as to ‘her’ reasons on being married so many times 😂

Apple1996 · Answer

Reminds me of this show called addicted to marriage

AMS700CX4u2 · Answer

No. Being married to seven men and Suggest that either, she has a problem with the selection process, or there is some subversive activity in place.

UrLoveMocha · Answer

I would ask her if she’s trying to compete with J-lo.. 😂 all jokes aside though, I would ask her what does she think is going wrong and if there’s anything she can think of that needs improvement.

LaureenVO · Answer

As a bisexual girl, I would not date someone that has been married 7 times. And if I was a guy, I would feel the same

FreyaRed · Answer

When you shot 7 times on a human big target in 10m distance and you don't hit it any time, you just can't shoot.

Noredcarpet · Answer

I would love to hear her story as to why 7 times, yeah, it is too much.

Phoenix98 · Answer

Definitely not I will not be the eighth. If someone has been married seven times and not a single one worked out then the problem is probably them.

XXTruthfulOgrexx · Answer

With a walking nightmare of red flags? no thanks I would peace out of there faster than the flash.

molonski2 · Answer

OMG  Well let's say she has some serious form !  Would I want to be 8th? Hell no , fark that !

RandomGirl42 · Answer

Ty for inviting me to share. I would think they could make a good movie of the week from her story especially if all her husbands died or something.

Anonymous · Answer

I suppose it's possible to make a mistake several times.

OneViewpoint · Answer

No way I’d even be casual friends with a woman that fickle or bad at making major life decisions.  Those are the people I do not want around me. They bring nothing good into my life.

LiamS95 · Answer

Sounds like her relationship success rate isn't to good, I would conclude she has been a large contributing factor to that poor rating and not want to have anything to do with her.

beenherebefore · Answer

I immediately think she's the problem and has commitment issues.

Kelly6 · Answer

@paige90 best to first hear her story on why she failed 7 times

236color · Answer

No I would not. 7 failed marriages with 1 common factor.

DryGermanGuy · Answer

Elizabeth Taylor? :-D To your question: No, I doubt that eighth time is the charm.

Zionne · Answer

Maybe she has a problem? 7 times being remarried means she can't keep a marriage

NathanDavis · Answer

two might be my limit... since Katy Perry has married twice before... I might try being the third

XXblack88 · Answer

well if I was a guy if she's in her 20's 7 marriage is to much if she's an older woman I would ask her about the 7 failed marriages and make my decision on her answer

Berethor · Answer

How can a trust a woman who has been married seven times? no hymen, no diamond.

elizamichale1 · Answer

I would ask her why does she need to be married... its clearly not for her n I dont think k any guy will accept her into marriage n neither will any woman advise someone getting married to her

Keyboardkat · Answer

She's a bad relationship or marriage risk. It simply can't ALWAYS be the guy's fault! She obviously has issues!

Staximus · Answer

Well I won't be marrying her, that's for sure

ponderingpaul · Answer

Sounds very sketchy. Lots of bad possibilities. I’d need a very convincing story and still it Would seem like a bad omen.

Brady · Answer

Good? Sometimes it mayb that the girl n guy aren't compatible, r as different as day n nite, etc. It could b the girl's fault n/or the guy's fault. Mayb she needs 2 go out on dates with the guy n liv w/the guy as a trial 2c.

Bricealan · Answer

@paige90 I made that mistake. My wife was married 6 times and said she had fucked 30 men.

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

I think she's really in love with paperwork 😂

Friendlybro79 · Answer

Probably not for anything serious lol. That said I try not to judge someone without actually getting to know them first.

Light_beam · Answer

I don't see a difference between girls who had slept with 7 men before me or the one who got married to 7 except that the one who got married are respectful than the one who opens her legs for ANYONE..

RavVid · Answer

At a min ring around the exes. I would not be up for being #8

glennos89 · Answer

Hell no, I assume she is probably a gold digger or a pain in the ass. Loyalty isn't her strongest quality obviously

Danny_dan92 · Answer

My last ex had multiple relationships before me. I never been with a girl that was previously married tho

FenixG45 · Answer

I've been divorced, and am not averse to marrying someone who has been divorced. Everyone is entitled to make a mistake! That said, there's something questionable about a person who has been married 7 times!

linda86 · Answer

Is she a siren, drowning men like salors. Is she using these men.

zagor · Answer

No. Just no. I have enough problems with poor choices I've made; I don't need someone that proficient at it.

DJB72 · Answer

Divorces or widowed? Widowed 7 times is a bigger red flag, but neither option says she's a catch...

Chrytina84 · Answer

No cause they be looking for money from sounds of it.

BADGER44 · Answer

if it was you , i wouldn't count the other stupid 7. wed start fresh

Snowman84 · Answer

Maybe, I think marriage might be out of the question

AgentG111 · Answer

Definitely want more information and also a prenum

DarknessToDestiny · Answer

I am a guy. I would wonder if she is taking the time to heal and learn from the relationships. My guess is no. I wouldn't date her, because I would greatly fear being number 8.

Anonymous · Answer

Never. Once or twice I could see as a possibility, and maybe not her fault.. But 7 times.. She's not marriage material.

Surely · Answer

Maybe a friends with benefits. After providing a blood test!  Married? Hell no!

Mcluven101 · Answer

I won't marry her. My bigger worry is why is she getting married again? What does she want to achieve?

ABC1x1x · Answer

I wouldn't get into a relationship with a girl thats had a boyfriend.

Twalli · Answer

7 is a lot, twice, if she's older may be okay though.

DrunkMemory · Answer

Doesn't matter to me. Like people say if you failed just try try again. Sooner or later that right one will come. Never give up

exitseven · Answer

I would run for the hills.

Alexalex92 · Answer

I would be interested to hear her story. I think I would be just a friend and not marry her.

douride2 · Answer

Seven times is about 6 to many.

WonderingManII · Answer

Nope. I pray I never meet one like that.

whiskeyontherocks · Answer

I wouldn’t waste my time

pinkmochi · Answer

Or Nah by The Weeknd and Ty Dolla Sign. 😂

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