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4 moRelationships involve two people. It is usually never ONLY one person's fault. It sounds like this woman gets married too quickly when perhaps she should only have continued relationships to test out how well things were going over time.
Or, this woman has a faulty "picker." This could be due to bad male examples she had growing up, or NO male examples. If she had an alcoholic, drug addicted or abusive father, this might be what she knew and she chooses men of the same ilk: recipes for disaster. Or with no example, she never recognizes men who are ill suited to her or marriage.But, to me, the most telling example of why NOT to choose this person is she says it was all THEIR fault. I would say seven marriages means this person is an unlikely candidate for long-term relationships. It would seem they keep repeating the same error, ad infinitum, whatever that error may be.
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Anonymous(36-45)4 moMy best friend and I were out to eat once, and this rando slid into our booth and started flirting with her. I was like damn this dude is BOLD! She was kind of into it until he bust out with, so, I just want to be honest, I have four kids, and 3 ex wives, k, but I'm straight. I take care of them. We were in college at the time, and you might as well have splashed cold water in my friends face, because oh hell no.
My rule of dating people with ex husbands, is once divorced, cool, everyone was once, young dumb, and full of..., twice, alright, not great, but s--t happens, maybe he was a nightmare trap, three...it's you, it's definitely you because we're just not learning any applicable life lessons like maybe slow down and get to know their level of crazy or understand your own before you say yes. Seven is nuts. All I can think is must be rich.11 Reply
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4 moI'm not dumb enough to get married to someone with those chances of success lol. Sounds like a girl who can't filter men well or has some serious commitment issues. It says she can't stick it through thick and thin. A girl who's been married seven times is more likely to leave the moment there's any little thing she gets upset about.
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3.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. No, 2 times is the limit and that’s pushing it , 7 times pretty much means she is the problem
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4 moI would first wonder what happened to her husbands. Did they die? Under what circumstances? It's she a serial killer?
If I was single, I might date her, and hookup with her, but there would be zero chance of me becoming number right.
11 Reply 3.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. I would go out with her just because i'm curious.\n Why something would start and end so many times with a new person? Everytime
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By definition (to me) she cannot be attractive with that track record. She is a raging dumpster fire of drama.
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@OneViewpoint I agree
2.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. I think after botching the gig 7 times it’s time she accepts marriage isn’t for her
It’s not an insult. Marriage is not for everyone.
She can be perfectly happy in a lifelong relationship without the traditional marital obligations (maybe)
But an 8th marriage won’t solve her problem11 Reply- 1.2K opinions shared on Dating topic.
4 moIf you've been married 7 times that's bad enough. But if you then blame it on being the "guys fault," that is even worse because it shows that you have not learned anything even after 7 marriage. No, I would not get into a relationship with such a woman.
Sadly, my niece who is now in her mid 30s has already been married and divorced twice. I love her to death but she has a really bad picker for guys. And she is extremely attractive so she gets any guy she wants which in her case is not helping things.
00 Reply 2.3K opinions shared on Dating topic. Not interested at all. For one, that shows that she consistently makes bad decisions and doesn't learn from them.
2. She has had more than 5 lifetime partners and wouldn't be able to form a strong pair bond.
3. She likely had casual sex and that greatly contributed to her previous relationships failing due to not being able to pair bond.
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4 moI wouldn’t be making a decision about whether to be in a relationship with her ‘just’ on the basis of how many times she had been married previously.
A woman being relationship material is based on a considerable number of factors but is certainly be curious as to ‘her’ reasons on being married so many times 😂00 Reply 2.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. https://www.youtube.com/embed/fI8BPXdzADMReminds me of this show called addicted to marriage
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4 moNo. Being married to seven men and Suggest that either, she has a problem with the selection process, or there is some subversive activity in place.
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4 moI would ask her if she’s trying to compete with J-lo.. 😂 all jokes aside though, I would ask her what does she think is going wrong and if there’s anything she can think of that needs improvement.
20 ReplyAs a bisexual girl, I would not date someone that has been married 7 times. And if I was a guy, I would feel the same
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by the way, it has nothing to do with being a 'slut' or anything. That's not the reason at all. But being married that many times just shows that you're not consistent, don't keep promises, can't work things out and that you're probably very impulsive. All red flags to me when it comes to someone's personality.
972 opinions shared on Dating topic. When you shot 7 times on a human big target in 10m distance and you don't hit it any time, you just can't shoot.
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4 moI would love to hear her story as to why 7 times, yeah, it is too much.
40 Reply6K opinions shared on Dating topic. Definitely not I will not be the eighth. If someone has been married seven times and not a single one worked out then the problem is probably them.
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4 moWith a walking nightmare of red flags? no thanks I would peace out of there faster than the flash.
10 Reply1.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. OMG
Well let's say she has some serious form !
Would I want to be 8th? Hell no , fark that !10 Reply
4 moTy for inviting me to share.
I would think they could make a good movie of the week from her story especially if all her husbands died or something.
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Anonymous(36-45)4 moI suppose it's possible to make a mistake several times.
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7 times?
Opinion Owner4 mo7 times is a bit too much.
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4 moNo way I’d even be casual friends with a woman that fickle or bad at making major life decisions.
Those are the people I do not want around me. They bring nothing good into my life.
00 Reply 459 opinions shared on Dating topic. Sounds like her relationship success rate isn't to good, I would conclude she has been a large contributing factor to that poor rating and not want to have anything to do with her.
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4 moI immediately think she's the problem and has commitment issues.
20 Reply 1.3K opinions shared on Dating topic. @paige90 best to first hear her story on why she failed 7 times
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She is a black widow! 😱🫣🤯
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I've HAD MORE THAN 7 GIRLFRIENDS. THEY didn't WORK OUT. I JUST didn't GET AROUND TO MARRYING THEM. BUT I COULDVE. DONE A a lot OF STUPID THINGS HARD TO BELIEVE I MADE IT OUT OF SOME OF THEM... I CAME FROM A DIVORCE PARENTS. SO I STARTED OFF ON GUARD FOR THAT, IF I didn't I PROBLY WOULD VE TAKEN THE SPLUDGE A FEW TIMES...
No I would not. 7 failed marriages with 1 common factor.
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m 4 moElizabeth Taylor? :-D
To your question: No, I doubt that eighth time is the charm.
30 Reply 799 opinions shared on Dating topic. Maybe she has a problem? 7 times being remarried means she can't keep a marriage
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m 4 motwo might be my limit... since Katy Perry has married twice before... I might try being the third
10 Reply 458 opinions shared on Dating topic. well if I was a guy if she's in her 20's 7 marriage is to much if she's an older woman I would ask her about the 7 failed marriages and make my decision on her answer
10 ReplyHow can a trust a woman who has been married seven times? no hymen, no diamond.
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4 moI would ask her why does she need to be married... its clearly not for her n I dont think k any guy will accept her into marriage n neither will any woman advise someone getting married to her
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4 moShe's a bad relationship or marriage risk. It simply can't ALWAYS be the guy's fault! She obviously has issues!
00 Reply2.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. Well I won't be marrying her, that's for sure
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4 moSounds very sketchy. Lots of bad possibilities. I’d need a very convincing story and still it
Would seem like a bad omen.10 ReplyGood? Sometimes it mayb that the girl n guy aren't compatible, r as different as day n nite, etc. It could b the girl's fault n/or the guy's fault. Mayb she needs 2 go out on dates with the guy n liv w/the guy as a trial 2c.
00 Reply740 opinions shared on Dating topic. @paige90 I made that mistake. My wife was married 6 times and said she had fucked 30 men.
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m 4 moI think she's really in love with paperwork 😂
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4 moProbably not for anything serious lol. That said I try not to judge someone without actually getting to know them first.
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4 moI don't see a difference between girls who had slept with 7 men before me or the one who got married to 7 except that the one who got married are respectful than the one who opens her legs for ANYONE..
00 Reply2.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. At a min ring around the exes.
I would not be up for being #810 Reply626 opinions shared on Dating topic. Hell no, I assume she is probably a gold digger or a pain in the ass. Loyalty isn't her strongest quality obviously
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4 moMy last ex had multiple relationships before me. I never been with a girl that was previously married tho
10 Reply I've been divorced, and am not averse to marrying someone who has been divorced. Everyone is entitled to make a mistake! That said, there's something questionable about a person who has been married 7 times!
00 ReplyIs she a siren, drowning men like salors. Is she using these men.
10 Reply10.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. No. Just no.
I have enough problems with poor choices I've made; I don't need someone that proficient at it.
10 Reply896 opinions shared on Dating topic. Divorces or widowed? Widowed 7 times is a bigger red flag, but neither option says she's a catch...
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4 moNo cause they be looking for money from sounds of it.
10 Replyif it was you , i wouldn't count the other stupid 7. wed start fresh
10 ReplyMaybe, I think marriage might be out of the question
10 ReplyDefinitely want more information and also a prenum
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4 moI am a guy. I would wonder if she is taking the time to heal and learn from the relationships. My guess is no. I wouldn't date her, because I would greatly fear being number 8.
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Anonymous(36-45)4 moNever. Once or twice I could see as a possibility, and maybe not her fault.. But 7 times.. She's not marriage material.
10 Reply1.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. Maybe a friends with benefits. After providing a blood test!
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4 moI won't marry her. My bigger worry is why is she getting married again? What does she want to achieve?
10 ReplyI wouldn't get into a relationship with a girl thats had a boyfriend.
00 Reply4.5K opinions shared on Dating topic. 7 is a lot, twice, if she's older may be okay though.
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4 moDoesn't matter to me. Like people say if you failed just try try again. Sooner or later that right one will come. Never give up
00 Reply8.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. I would run for the hills.
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4 moI would be interested to hear her story. I think I would be just a friend and not marry her.
10 Reply1.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. Seven times is about 6 to many.
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4 moNope. I pray I never meet one like that.
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4 moI wouldn’t waste my time
10 ReplyOr Nah by The Weeknd and Ty Dolla Sign. 😂
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