My boyfriend want to see my phone but if I ask for his phone why would he say why I ask him and didn't ask nobody in my past?

[Anonymous]

[Nikki1989]

When he says, “You didn't ask anyone in your past for their phone,” he is using a deflection tactic. Instead of answering your question or addressing the current issue (his phone), he is turning the focus onto your history. Men are the kings of deflection.

[Anonymous]

Keep your phone to yourself and let him keep his to himself. If you are concerned about cheating a phone might have definitive proof, but you can also find that without snooping through someone's phone. As the smartphone is the modern diary; and to go through someone's phone is an invasion of their privacy.

[Asker]

Well he the one always want to go through it and If I dont let him more likely he would break my phone but if i ask him about his phone then he would hide it. I dont trust him because u told me he been talking to other women then say he not. Playing mind games with me

[Opinion Owner]

He is definitely toxic. You should find someone better.

[Summeroflove]

Well seems there is some trust issues or you have different boundaries in the relationship.

[slatyb]

Don't let him see your phone, and don't let him be your boyfriend. People who don't cheat assume that their partner won't either. People who worry about their partner cheating are cheaters themselves.

[Mariogirl09]

he's manipulating you

[Alex-Snow]

He sounds like he is hiding something

[Zionne]

red flag