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Should I not be making plans without him?

Recently I've been through bad stuff in my relationship and as we are suppose to follow a program (he says he hope I will stay with him later, that he has proven himself and me changing my mind) I am as is he now followers through it. Before in my opinion he and his female socalled friend ruined what I had looked forward to him and I and others doing. I have now and am still making plans ahead but without him that Im instead looking forward to, too with people I can bet can, will still be doing this with me. He says he don't think it's right I do this, and without him. I've always liked to plan ahead, like to have things to look forward to and Im thinking this is part of my Joy for life to still get ahead, is it wrong?

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5 mo
To clarify I've booked things with other people that I would ask him always before to join if he liked, but he would turn it down or when he would accompony us he wouldn't enjoy it. When we touched the subject he protested and then he walked away without a word after I told him how I had reasoned. I need to have things to look forward of doing in my future no matter how we stand, and I am not about to make the same mistake twice of having something I look forward to be ruined by him, or who ever
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5 mo
We've talked some more, and I get his point that he thinks it is insemsitive of me not to ask him if he wants to join and he saw it as a sign of me planning my future without him. I told him the harsh fact that he and few people he knows has always excluded me and it's not as if he has asked me if that was ok, but that was fine by me so.
Should I not be making plans without him?
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