My boyfriend of just over a year told me the other day that he's planning a vacation (a 7-day cruise this summer) with his guy friends. He didn't invite me, and when I asked, he said he just wanted to relax with his friends and not have to worry about me. I'm obviously offended that he doesn't want to take me on vacation with him, but am I overreacting?
Most Helpful Guy
This is just time for the guys. It will happen early in relationships like yours unit they become more serious. Even though you are a full year in, he is still at that age where his friends are tremendously important in his life.0
Most Helpful Girl
Yes, my boyfriend is going on a kayaking trip next month for over a week, with the guys. And i'm the type of girlfriend that hates when he's away from me, but instead of being a butt I just told him it sounds like fun, do I want him to go? No not really but I think its fair to him. However I told him I would like to go on a trip with him after and we agreed to that. So perhaps ask him to go somewhere after. BUT I don't see why the trip has to do with "worrying about you" as if you're something negative lol.0