Why is it that if you're a man, down on your luck, no money, needs a helping hand, you're a loser but, if you're a woman like that, no hard feelings?

[FunkyMonkee]

[DishLady]

Who said that? I think perhaps guys are tone-deaf to what women say about each other. It's pretty nasty, which is why I tend to stay tf away from most women. Guys can be jerks but they're at least linear for the most part, so you know up front, "Ah! Ok, we're not gonna be friends." And that's that.

[FunkyMonkee]

Just about everybody!! If you've run out of money, for some reason, you suddenly become a worthless bum!! But, if you're a woman in the same situation, someone will be along at any moment to take care of you and help you find a better life!

[DishLady]

HAHAHA. Where tf was that guy for me? Nowhere. Please...

[DextroShade]

Because women are human beings and men are human doings. Women's value ultimately comes from their fertility and all the things that make them attractive are signs of youth and fertility; they are born with value but then they inevitably lose it. Men are born with no value but they have their whole lives to build it.

[aquamint]

Women’s value only come from having a vagina from birth, because men almost always just see us as a use for sex so….
Also let’s not forget to mention that a huge MAJORITY of parents want boys, so there is actual value for men from birth. Thats why parents shrug a lot of things off for you guys with “boys will be boys” while the girls are kept inside and taught how to please you all as we grow up.
Very disturbing

[DextroShade]

@aquamint what you are describing hasn't existed for decades. Men have been constantly shamed for their masculinity and sexuality.

[aquamint]

Sexuality? As in? Being gay? Cause gays have been openly accepted by women. Or sexuality as in sex itself? Please clarify.
Masculinity, men have defined what masculinity is. Not women. In my 23 years of living, I have seen boys shame boys, men shaming boys. Men shaming men for masculinity. Rarely have I seen a women do so, and when it is done it is because of the standards men have set for masculinity. I encourage boys and men to cry and voice there feelings which is automatically shut down by a man.
Parents wanting a boy isn’t decades ago it has always been a big thing. Which is why you see boys still getting away with almost everything, while girls are still getting in trouble for doing the things the boys do.
Now with the women used from sex thing, yes that is still ongoing. Why do you think parents attempt to shield there daughters growing up? Because it’s really just want a majority of men want from women. Sex. Not liking the women, loving the women. They want to have sex with her and that’s it.
I mean look at the dudes that put on a facade as a “nice guy” then proceed to have sex with the girl then ghost afterwards.

[DextroShade]

@aquamint you are just making stuff up now. Schools treat boys as defective girls and men will 3× the punishment as women for the same crimes. Men only get shamed for their sexuality if they are straight, hence all the complaints about women being "objectified" or the "male gaze" while a woman can be a miserable whore who dies alone like Chelsea Handler and they get celebrated. Women also aren't attracted to nice men, they are attracted to hot men with dark triad personality traits. Murderers in prison get more female attention than the average decent man.

[aquamint]

What fucking women are celebrated that remain single that aren’t celebrities? Cause everytime I’ve seen someone say they’d rather not marry or have kids, people are in the comments calling them a cat lady and how she’ll be lonely and old with no one.
Sorry that some random women like prison men? I don’t like prison men, there in there for a reason. It seems like you’re assuming that all women like dark triad personalties.
Well considering a man sa’ing a woman should have complaints, I mean are you just trying to justify that a woman should have to be objectified everyday by men? I’m a little confused why I should be objectified by men everyday and not have a problem with it? I don’t objectify men, so why should I like that they do it to me?
I have no idea what old person is Chelsea handler, not sure why she’s a whore for wanting to not marry?
Also I’m a little confused how me stating what I’ve seen growing up is me making things up? I grew up with all brothers, I’ve seen it all. They were all let off the hook for everything, they were allowed to go hang out with friends late while I had to be home by 7 everynight and had to text my parents when I got there and when I was heading home. They even to this day have my location.

[Miristheiss]

No hard feelings? You mean she would be a victim. She needs a government handout, a program, a shelter or some guy needs to "man up" and provide for her.

[FunkyMonkee]

Sort of. More like, everyone would feel sympathetic towards her and might even be willing to try to help her but, if she were a guy, they'd just yell, "GET A JOB, YA BUM!!", like it was either his fault or even his CHOICE to end up living on the street!

[Vegasrunner]

Because men and women are valued for different things.

[fish5505_87]

Go figure.