Girls, you’re into this guy and he’s paid for 3 dates in a row, how attractive is that and when do you take him back to “reward” him for actions?

[Anonymous]

[lilBigPotato]

I'm not asking guys to pay for my dinners and I'm not expecting it from them. If they do, it's a nice gesture and it's their decision. Don't do it and then expect some type of reward other than me noticing you putting some extra effort and appreciating it.

In the end if we keep dating or not has nothing to do with who pays for dinner. And whether we have sex on the first date, the third one or never at all is also completely unrelated. If you think you can pay me for sex at least offer some money lmao

[Anonymous]

If I knew I wasn't interesting in rewarding him, I wouldn't let him keep paying for dates, or even going on dates.

Going on 2 dates could mean you're not sure about things and want to give it one more try, but if you go on a third date it pretty much means you're interested enough to keep moving in the direction of rewards.

You wouldn't necessarily have to give him rewards on the third date, maybe you could make out with him or let him feel you up or something, but it wouldn't be fair to him to continue dating if you know there aren't going to be any rewards on any date.

I would guess this issue is a huge problem guys have with the women they go out with.

[Anonymous]

You're exactly why I would insist on splitting the cost of all dates so I don't have to deal with this kind of entitlement.

[Nikki1989]

Huh, a reward for going out somewhere?

[Abbycado]

By "reward", I am taking it to mean something sexual. Not gonna happen.