What is your opinion of girls who constantly check their phones while on a date?

[Siajanua2027]

[Summeroflove]

Depends if she gets a text from someone I can understand checking it. But scrolling or checking all the time….. for me it signals disinterest. Obviously, whatever is going on on social media that she could check later is more important then anything I have to say.

Some people really have a addiction for others it’s normal. It’s not always intended that way…. But I’m someone that wants to connect and bond with someone. So even in that case it wouldn’t be compatible.

If she has to have her cell on all the time because of her job or a work phone i get it. But not just scrolling.

[OneViewpoint]

My thoughts would wander to...

• Is she immature?
• Who taught her manners?
• Does she have some place to be?
• Is she checking out new tinder messages from Chad & Tyrone?
• Is she in a running conversation about our date with her girlfriends?

And that's what would come out of my mouth word for word.

I'd try to wrap up the date as fast and as cheaply as possible without having to drive her home. Vaya con Dios muchacha.

[Screenwriter]

Doesn't sound like they're interested in being "in the moment." I would turn my phone off while on a date. Check it before and after.

No one's going out on a date with a sick child at home. Job and everything else should be on the back burner for your "me" time. Phone checking seems rude to me. Both of you should be each other's attention.

[Nikki1989]

It is rude no matter who is doing it. I never bring my phone with me when we go places. Why in the hell would anyone?

[loveslongnails]

If she's not a single mom, or a caretaker that needs to be on call for a parent or patients, I think it's a deal breaker right then and there. However, I do understand that on a first few dates, a girl would want an emergency code set up it the date suddenly goes to hell.

[AgentG111]

Depends on their age and children. If they are okay with being away from them while out and have a good sitter then it shouldn't be an issue.

If it's not related to children then don't waste your time if she can't focus on you two as adults then leave.

[XXTruthfulOgrexx]

Date ends. I've walked out on a few dates where they were more focused on their tiktok feeds than having an actual date.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

She checks it once NO PROBLEM, she checks it twice IT’S OK, she checks it three times IT’S STARTING TO GET ANNOYING & if she checks it again the DATE IS OVER.

[slatyb]

They are only there for a free meal. If someone does this to you, just say ¨check please¨, settle the bill at the register, and walk out.

[imnoangel90]

First date: means they ain't interested and wanted a free meal. I have split the bill on dates who give me these red flags.

Current girlfriend: she looking at the meme I just sent her.

[Levin]

That is a deal breaker. It indicates bad manners, poor habits and a lack of interest.

[genericname85]

i only ever had that once and for me that's super disrespectful and i won't go on a second date with a girl like that.

[a_gallant_one]

That they're either not interested, or always asking her friends what should they do around a guy.

[Rangers]

If she does that and you don't leave her with the bill, you don't respect yourself

[DextroShade]

It means the date is a foodie call so I am sneaking out and leaving the bitch with the bill.

[Staximus]

They obviously don't want to be there or are bored

[qwerty2469]

If they check their phone, they aren't on a date. Don't see them again.

[Chazmatazz269]

Trash

[Abbycado]

That is incredibly rude.

[exitseven]

they show a lack of respect.

[WonderingManII]

Inconsiderate.

[beefcakebradybatson]

They're looking for some other #boyjoy!!!

[MikeMcMansion]

Naw they’re looking for approval of their friend groups

[beefcakebradybatson]

@MikeMcMansion AND some other #boyjoy!!!

[MikeMcMansion]

Whayever

[zombiewoof]

They must want to be somewhere else

[queenofcardio]

Annoying af.

[sage2021]

It's very rude!!

[dudeinohio]

Deal-breaker

[CuriousMufuxka]

Check please!