How would you feel if the person you are dating told you his/her the one that got away?

[Anonymous]

[OlderAndWiser]

Information about former partners should never be volunteered on a first date, and anyone with an IQ score should know that. I would assume that she is not ready to move forward, bring the date to a quick end, and go back to the dating site to find the next contestant.

[Asker]

Right Id be annoyed

[Anonymous]

The "one" still lives?

As someone who should fill the gap.

Not good.

Date talk about ex partners - difficult.

1. date? No go.

I only do to "tell" I am not interested when I don't want to hurt the feeling by telling, that I am not interested in my date.

Later you can maybe talk about older times. But not on the 1. Date.

[DishLady]

The person's a dbag if they do that. But good news... now YOU will be the one who got away.

[Anonymous]

Not sure. Because I have a one that got away. But I'm not actively pursuing that women. So while it might say something about me. I'm not hung up on that woman.

[Asker]

So how do you know if she's the one that got away?

[Opinion Owner]

As much as you can ever know that about any person. We were always a great match. She saw it, I didn't. I eventually figured it out. I just figured it out too late. Am I saying it would've worked out between us? No. There's know way I could know that. And at this point it doesn't matter. I'm just saying I recognize my mistake.

[Asker]

Maybe I should ask that here lol

[queenofcardio]

I'd be upset and annoyed. People shouldn't date if they're not completely over someone else.. What a waste of time for the person they're dating.

[Anonymous]

It would make me feel like she values me less, unless I was the one that got away.

[Anonymous]

Taken aback because "this is my first date, that I haven't been stood up on" 😃🤫💘

[MonopolyGuy]

That’s very wrong strategy in first date.

[Anonymous]

I would stop dating him.

[Asker]

Right wtf