Have you ever dated someone so terrible that you cheated on them?

[Anonymous]

and you don't feel bad about it?

[Finchie40]

Yes, on a toxic girlfriend that treated me like shit , always starting arguments with me and was always miserable about something , so a girl I use to work with that I was friends’ with and attracted to was going through the same thing with her boyfriend , so we both decided to dump our partners’ the same time so after work her and I went for a bite to eat to discuss how we are going to break up with our toxic
Partners’ but before we did her and I ended up in bed together and had sex all night long, the next day we both dumped our partners’ but our partners’ didn’t want to break up with us , long story short I still broke up with mine but she gave her boyfriend another chance which I thought was odd considering she cheated on him all night with me

[Finchie40]

Now they are married and she is miserable again lol

[Asker]

Funny story

[Finchie40]

I did feel bad for not breaking up with her first , but it didn’t go that way , she just got the news after the fact

[ohsheeT]

That still doesn't make it ok. .. I mean , it is a good excuse when you get caught because you need some sort of excuse , right .. no has never happen if i'm unhappy I say goodbye

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[Anonymous]

Yes, in college, a really ugly guy that got depressed and couldn’t get an erection. We’d dated for about a year and he wouldn’t make a move and I got bored. I feel mildly bad about it. But he was pretty useless in that way.

[TediumIsTheWorstPain]

Why'd you agree to go out with him at all?

Why did you stay with him for so long?

[TediumIsTheWorstPain]

No judgments, just genuinely curious.

[Opinion Owner]

@TediumIsTheWorstPain I sort of liked him as a person and enjoyed going out. But you’re right, I should’ve just dumped him.

[TediumIsTheWorstPain]

Was his inability to get hard like the final straw? So you found some other guy, who happened to have an erection, and took care of the problem?

He must have had a hell of a personality.

[Opinion Owner]

@TediumIsTheWorstPain yes, spot on. It was the final straw and I did that.

[TediumIsTheWorstPain]

It wasn't LITERALLY that, was it? It wasn't like...

YOU: i'm so frustrated! My boyfriend can't get an erection!
RANDOM GUY: I've got an erection.
YOU: Sweet! Can I borrow it for a few minutes?

[Opinion Owner]

@TediumIsTheWorstPain yes, it was.

[TediumIsTheWorstPain]

That's incredibly sad, and incredibly hot.

Who was the guy? Did your boyfriend ever find out?

[Opinion Owner]

@TediumIsTheWorstPain yes he did. There were condoms on my desk. He was some guy I picked up online.

[TediumIsTheWorstPain]

Did he cry?

Did you cry? Or was it like. "I needed a big hard dick inside me"?

[TediumIsTheWorstPain]

It must have been an awful conversation.

[Opinion Owner]

@TediumIsTheWorstPain we didn’t discuss it in detail.

[TediumIsTheWorstPain]

Was the whole relationship just over instantly? Just the sight of those condoms ended it?

And you're 39-45 now? Is this like a painful memory gor you? Or like an embarrassing one maybe?

[Opinion Owner]

@TediumIsTheWorstPain embarrassing and no we pretended that we could continue with a relationship for a few more weeks, then I ended it.

[TediumIsTheWorstPain]

Was it only one time with guy number two? Or were you still with your boyfriend but fucking the other guy on a regular basis for those last few weeks?

How old are you now? Just curious.

[Opinion Owner]

@TediumIsTheWorstPain one time

[Opinion Owner]

I’m in my late thirties now

[TediumIsTheWorstPain]

So he was literally just a random internet guy?

Did you consider keeping it going with both of them? Like go out on actual dates with the boyfriend, and rides the other one's dick a few times a week?

[Opinion Owner]

@TediumIsTheWorstPain no I didn’t

[TediumIsTheWorstPain]

Are you married now? Did you tell your husband about this ever?

Or if you have a daughter, did you tell her the story?

[TediumIsTheWorstPain]

Sorry for being so interested in this.

It's a fascinating story though. At least to me.

[Opinion Owner]

@TediumIsTheWorstPain thanks then 🙂. Well, it’s a bit of a guarded secret. I’ve never cheated on anyone since; and I never will. I’m not married and I don’t have kids, but I have a boyfriend.

[TediumIsTheWorstPain]

I can understand not wanting tell your boyfriend about it.

Was the sex with the non-boyfriend really good? Or like exciting? I can imagine the whole time you were thinking, "God, I should NOT be doing this." Which maybe made it extra intense, or something.

[Opinion Owner]

@TediumIsTheWorstPain nah, I was very inexperienced then.

[TediumIsTheWorstPain]

You weren't a virgin, were you?

[Opinion Owner]

@TediumIsTheWorstPain I think so

[TediumIsTheWorstPain]

Oh my gosh. So you wanted to give your virginity to your boyfriend, but he couldn't get hard, so you gave it to a random internet dude instead?

I think I said this before, but... that's incredibly sad, and incredibly hot.

I gotta go. Thanks for answering all my questions. I'm sure I'll have more next time I'm on.

You can chat me, if you feel like it. This thread is getting kinda long. Just a thought.

[TediumIsTheWorstPain]

Are you glad you lost your virginity the way you did? Or looking back now, do you kind of regret it?

[TediumIsTheWorstPain]

I was thinking about you and your ex last night.

[ElenaSeluna]

That’s a very messed up situation, I won’t put my self in such thing in the first place

[MontBlanc]

I’ve been in situations that weren’t healthy, but I’ve never cheated.

If something isn’t right, I leave.
I don’t cross my own values.

[Anonymous]

No. I wouldn't be with someone I consider "terrible". If something "terrible" happened, I would be willing to forgive her and work on the issue.

[Anonymous]

I got news for ya hun. If you cheated on them (regardless of what they've done, man or woman) then you are the terrible one. Or at least equally as terrible. Because there is NO excuse for cheating. NONE!

[Jammannn]

Shame you might of found the one,

because it sounds like you're a terrible person too.

[Asker]

if I had found the one, I wouldn't be cheating on them

[Crankor]

Why would you stay with them long enough for that to happen if it was a bad relationship?

[Asker]

being with someone is easier than being completely alone.

[Crankor]

I disagree. Its only because that is what you are accustomed to

[Anonymous]

There’s a saying , cheating is caused due to insecurity

[Asker]

cheating is usually caused by relationship dissatisfaction

[Opinion Owner]

Nope. If u don’t like them leave them. Cheating isn’t caused due to that

[Asker]

yes, people cheat for MANY reasons. Usually cuz they just aren't happy with their partners cuz their partners suck

[Opinion Owner]

lol leave them. Why cheat. 🤣

[MrChinaski]

If you are cheating, you are not in a relationship.

[Asker]

@MrChinaski

Relationships usually end long before the actual breakup.

[Hopeless30]

Nope i break up immediately why need to be with headache?

[Nikki1989]

I have never cheated on anyone.

[MrChinaski]

Me either. Whenever this topic comes up, I'm always impressed by the number of GaGgers that have not.

[Asker]

@MrChinaski

the ones who have cheated usually won't ever say they have

[palewhale]

never have never will

[exitseven]

No, that would be nuts

[Alex-Snow]

Never. I would end the relationship first

[Anonymous]

No. I would just dump them (and did).

[jahaims]

No, I'm not special needs

[Abbycado]

Nope.

[NicholasofAustralia]

@Abbycado has principles 💪👍

[BCRanger10]

I've never cheated.

[Anonymous]

Wow you're toxic as hell

[Emma5456]

Nope