How To Understand And Deal With A Guy Losing Interest?

[Anonymous]

I've been talking to this guy for a couple months now and things have been going great! We talked everyday almost and laughed at our messages every time. As the months went on though, our conversations have been shorter and shorter, with me having to start them mostly.

Now, he has been going through stuff, which I completely understand, he's also very honest and upfront. However, I've been feeling very scared to talk to him because a part of me feels him pulling away.

How do you understand that feeling and deal with it? The most normal thing to do would be to focus on myself and my hobbies and shit like that, but I can't. Instead I end up having a panic attack and ask him point blank or on here because im insecure as all hell.

Im falling for him hard and I dont want to fuck this up.

[Anonymous]

It is common for men to withdraw emotionally when they are overwhelmed by external stressors like work, health, or family issues.

Signs of true lost interest often include a total lack of curiosity about your life, repeatedly cancelling plans without rescheduling, and a persistent flatness in communication over a long period.

If the withdrawal continues for months without any effort to repair or communicate despite your calm attempts, you may need to evaluate if the relationship meets your needs. A healthy partner will eventually meet you halfway once their immediate crisis passes.

Good luck.

[firenine909]

Tell him you like him and want to date him but if he’s not interested in you then you should stop being a thing because you don’t want to be led on. Guys prefer confrontation

[Nikki1989]

You just meet a different guy. It is not difficult.

[Staximus]

So dumb kids these days say "talking to" when they mean dating, or hanging out with, or having sex with, or actually just talking to somebody. If you don't see this guy in real life regularly then you need to get a hold of yourself