1. He is dealing with his own demons.
Society still projects men as these tough superman characters who can’t be bothered with emotional problems. That is a load of crap. All people have demons, hang-ups, and painful experiences from their past that will still affect them in the present.
Though he may not feel comfortable telling you this is what he is doing, men may lose interest in having a relationship when they realize they have a whole bunch of baggage to deal with first.
I know, ladies, many of us think: “but I could help him!” Not every inner-battle can be helped. If you are in a long-term committed relationship or a marriage, he may be grateful working through it all with you. But often, these things cannot and should not be untangled with someone else around– and that’s definitely not your fault.
2. Something in his life has changed.
When a man loses interest in you, something has often changed. But that probably doesn’t mean you did. Think about how many times in your own life a new opportunity, plan, or idea has come forward all of a sudden. This can happen to your guy too.
Maybe he’s decided he wants to travel for a while. Maybe he has a new job opportunity that will either take him away or take up too much time. These life events happen and they don’t always work with someone else in tow.
This will have nothing to do with you. We are all on our own life paths and sometimes our paths join together beautifully, and sometimes there’s a fork in the road. You cannot predict these life changes each time you meet someone new. He probably didn’t either.
3. He has changed his mind.
Sometimes something in his life changes, but sometimes he is the one who changes. It is possible to want one thing and then realize it’s not all you hoped for. All the things he wanted when he met you could be different now. He simply changed his mind.
He could have thought marriage and family life would be ideal. But as he gets closer to tying the knot, he realizes that’s not the actually case. He could have thought he wanted a relationship to look a certain way, but it turns out he actually prefers something else entirely.
You will have to get out from the trap of thinking if you behaved differently, he wouldn’t have changed his mind. Remember, we are not in charge of other people’s thoughts and actions. We are really only witnesses to them.
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-figuring out she’s unhygienic on a regular or consistent basis. It’s not a deal breaker, but it COULD make me lose interest.
-talking and entertaining other men in a more than friendly way. If you wouldn’t do it with me watching you, then don’t do it.
-she seems like she’s not interested in me. She doesn’t text, call a lot, or doesn’t seem to put that much effort at all. I can definitely sense when a girl isn’t interested
-superficial
-hates kids (huge turn off)
-hates beer (jk jk)
There’s more but that’s the primary stuff in the top of my head
Wasn't that interested to begin with
Found someone else
Didn't want a serious relationship and only casual hookups
Discouraged about anything going further with the person they like due to over thinking and insecurities about themselves
Too busy with work and other projects
Life circumstances
Friends/family intervention (changing their view about the person they like even if the person is good for them)
Sudden realization of personality clash
Telling him everything! Ever notice a man doesn’t walk through the door and rattle off everything he’s done that day in depth? That’s because to them it’s not interesting keep some things a mystery unless they ask of course then be honest. I once had a friend that used to tell her guy everything down to what she’d bought in the supermarket and if it was on offer some of these guys she’d only been on one date with!
Needless to say she got dumped a lot
The most common in my experience is that girls think it's the dude's job to do the contacting, showing of interest, etc. Y'all act so passive and don't show the same amount of interest as you expect so guys lose it.
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When I've lost interest in a girl, it is usually because she comes off as boring or too "closed" social-wise.
If she is horrible at carrying conversation, or doesn't seem interested to get to know me, I presume she isn't interested. I don't want a date to feel like i am pulling out her teeth!Well it would depend on a guy for starters, everyone has different reasons. I personally lose interest when
a) Girl play's the hard to get/mind games,
b) Girl gets caught up in her lies,
c) The girls is different in real life (personality wise) vs what online conversations made it look like
The most common reason I loose interest is when a girl says she is "nice and friendly" and this turns out to be total BS. I don't associate with BS people.Its pretty simple, when a guy try to show his affection for her and she's doing the "GTFO" attitude, also when she makes him tests endlessly to show her he's the best, otherwise she won't even botter to talk to him or she will treat him like shit. When you see how high women dating criterias are insanely high, you go MGTOW, cheers.
Lota of things... Eating like a pig. Turning down sex frequently.. hanging out with other guys frequently. Diffrrent lifestyles. Sifference in oppinion. Hygiene. You like to showw off your body. Etc etc. It's going to vary from person to person.
A successful communication can create an effective interaction. When you talk about, if a side tries to keep the sharing, of course he will be completely exhausted. Interaction! You have to throw yourself into the sharing time.
Big one that usually kills my interest is when it feels like it's not going anywhere and I'm not talking just sex I mean like she's either not showing anything to say hey I like you too then I'm like oh well whatever
If he realizes that the girl is not his type (that happens in an early time of the relationship) or if it's difficult for him to live with the girl due to some habits she has. You know, you don't know someone well until you live with them.
Crap becomes stale. Also uncaring or bad person to be in a relationship. Other temptation. Routine shit kills relationships.
When the girl doesn't put any passion or effort into the relationship.
It depends on what type of guy you are talking about.
Being confused as hell is actually the main reason a guy loses interest
When he found someone more attractive, sexy and beautiful then whom he have. He loses his interest on her
Novels/one word text, dont make the gold fish lose focus/ dont make the gold fish worry text minimum 20/maximum 175 keep your gold fish happy
When she has more focus on her friends or her problems without asking me for advice or help.
When a girl becomes too bossy, or too moody, or too possessive, too clingy, or to fat or abusive !!
Beating about the Bush, hard to get, childish mind games, lies, being a hoe, cheaters, unhygienic
If the the girl behaviour changes or avoiding him then it makes the boys behaviour changes
not to lose, develop novelties in sex, surprises and desires
Becoming overweight and don't give a fuck
Probably just not interested
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