Reasons why guys lose interest?

Question

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

There’s a bunch of reasons.

With me, if I don’t think that I’m getting anywhere with a woman - no signs of interest, I’m going to give up.

If I think that we have little in common, then I will probably stop showing interest.

If she starts showing herself as having some questionable interests, then I lose interest pretty quickly. I had a girl who I was interested in, who cheated with her best friend’s boyfriend (many times - not just “a one time mistake”). Didn’t feel bad about it, admitted she’d do it again in a heartbeat. Excused it. That’s not cool, especially to a friend.

She starts talking about friends behind their backs, calling them horrible names. Both those things shut down my interest really quickly.

If I catch a woman in a lot of lies... if she’s beyond stubborn about most things if it’s going to affect me (had a girl I dated who kept eating things I am allergic to and then lie about it - I’d get sick being around her). If she is mean to animals, children, or someone with a “low respected” job - server, etc.

If she hates something I love, or is nasty to me (especially about what I love), that’s a quick way for me to lose interest.

Germanium · Accepted Answer

Either:
When the girl isn't who I thought she was/getting to know her, she isn't my type.

Or if I've been "talking" with this girl for a long time (except we have short and boring conversations) and she has an obvious disinterest in me, it becomes influential and I also lose interest. However, most of the time I'd probably still be interested and it leaves a big cut when her disinterest becomes apparent later on or she reveals her feelings aren't mutual. It's difficult to to tell especially when you're being lead on and later come crashing down.

SHORT ANSWER:
We don't click well together. Bad/short conversations. Views are too different. Etc. However if interest is there, usually it's hard to let go of.

Whatwhat247 · Accepted Answer

This one is easy. He loses interest in you when you lose interest in yourself. Your life becomes his. You're always available to meet up because you made him your number one priority.
To avoid: love yourself first. Keep your hobbies, pursue your interests and make time for your friends.

ChronicThinker · Accepted Answer

- You played games
- You didn't put out
- You didn't show enough interest and he felt you weren't into it
- He realized you weren't that great afterall
- He got bored waiting for you
- He found someone else
- He died

Etc.

SomeStrangeGirl · Accepted Answer

A guy I was interested in said he lost interest in me because he said if he didn't ask a girl out right away they end up just being friends.

Margillard · Answer

Because the cost benefit analysis does not add up for men... more and more men are realizing marriage is old fashioned and the women are not.

Anonymous · Answer

HAH, it's more along the line that it's the girl who THINKS the guy looses interest. My GOD the torture put upon me because of this. A single SHY piece of crap like me. She drives by flirts, but doesn't stop and really take the time to talk to me. We use to work together, but she drives by, I don't know her address, or phone number. How the hell am I suppose to get interested. All men aren't outgoing Romeos. The same thing happened with the girl before her. At college, I couldn't tell wither shy shied away from me of thought I didn't like her.

I'm sure there are more relevant answers. One girl thought I was crazy for wanting to have sex only when you get married. That thinking made her less attractive to me.

Miristheiss · Answer

That question is a little too vague. Usually, once I get to know more about her I begin to see things that just aren't matches, that although I find her attractive and fun on a very superficial level, our worldviews, what we want out of life, what our life goals and where we want to go, value systems and other things don't really line up and that we are just too different on too many core topics to really have a future.

Anonymous · Answer

I think the main reason is when being with her starts to become a chore. Either because she's always questioning his actions out of jealousy or nagging or complaining about things or not giving him enough space

DaTruth01 · Answer

1- he wasn't intersted to begin with so you never had a chance of anything serious with him
2- he thought you were great before getting to know you then found out you are bitchy/ have attitude or really naive/dumb
3- he found out about some things in your past that turned him off

hahahmm · Answer

If you don’t show the same level of interest he shows, eventually he will get bored.

Rubbing it in his face that you are open to other guys.

Dressing like a slob 100% of the time. ‘Slob’ from his POV.

Slipgirl · Answer

Girls act a certain way to get guy & once they have them they start actually normal again? Guy is just immature? Realized he wasn't ready to settle down? Therw can be so many reasons 😕

aboringuy · Answer

A farmer want to travel with an unsubordinated horse, so he attach a carrot in front it. The horse walk straight forward to get it but after some time he find out that the carrot is way too hard to get. So he give up.

BrittBratt2416 · Answer

Wasn't that interested to begin with
Found someone else
Not willing to commit or get serious
Nervous/scared
Afraid of rejection
Busy with work/school etc.
Not sure if you like him

Um.. that's all I can think of?

scooogy · Answer

As soon as she tries to control me by begging or assuming, I'm gone. If you assume me to only want sex, congrats. As I always say, I'll remind her in her 30s when the tables turn. I'm just as tired of all these question on here, saying "aww, why doesn't he want to have sex with me anymore?" As in "why doesn't this stupid switch turn to 'want sex'?"

We're no sex machines. We're no heroes. In short: We don't live to love you.

Pinay_ako · Answer

lose interest when they're not as invested as you are in the relationship in the first place... they think of you as temporary or they don't see you in their future or long term serious relationship.

Bramlokh · Answer

Lack of progress or just not serious. You might be too "easy" like he doesn't have to out in any effort at all, or he doesn't feel like you put in as much effort as him. Could also be that he has found someone else he fancies more

TheNoOne · Answer

There either too unavailable or too easy they have to be just right.

Regular1 · Answer

Sometimes we only wanted one thing from you and once we've had it, we move on to the next Conquest. It's up to the bitch to keep that pussy tightly wrapped around his dick and give him a reason not to lose interest.

abhisar2006 · Answer

Losing interest can be counted as getting bored.. You need to keep things fresh and at the same time.. don't go All In.. save some for later

Brongg · Answer

I can only speak for me: i find many things people do pointless, their behaviour, the things they do, their wishes, i have a hard time to stay interested in people they are all the same. Not many people are special enough to keep me interested

toothrilled · Answer

something else got their attention (something they like slightly more)

Anonymous · Answer

A man can meet 100 women... most of them will be boring... do the math..

Keenisha · Answer

You're not what he thought you were in or he found another girl he likes more

Water_Bottle · Answer

Girls are dull things. Objects. Half the time if you're not fucking them you're listening to garbage no one cares about.

michael45 · Answer

Playing hard to get or acting uninterested..  Playing on her phone during a date, it is rude..  Taking ages to text back..

COCOCHANEL · Answer

they get annoyed and resentful of the way they are treated OR they get distracted and never intended to commit anyway.

Anonymous · Answer

END OF THE ROAD be it conversation things in common spirit of living shared sexual conquest sexual satisfaction bored

JubJub_Hi · Answer

They think you are boring or find someone better :(

tampaxgirl · Answer

Gotta suck dick often in order for him to not lose interest.

Lazeez · Answer

for me i loose interest when i saw her doing things i dont like or i have concerns about.

Djaaay · Answer

That can become two different categories. Depending with good guy vs bad guys.

schny · Answer

Because she is to boring? And she doesn't know What she wants

Surgence · Answer

They only started dating you for you're looks not you're personality

Smegskull · Answer

They realise something isn't as interesting as it seamed.

Anonymous · Answer

Playing to hard to get. Or you're just not interesting.

Anonymous · Answer

This is not a question.. Actual question is , reasons why girls lose interest?

TripleAce · Answer

Cause You're not the one

Napkins_Boochy_WOO · Answer

Lose interest in what?

sp33d · Answer

She's not interesting, would be a fair bet.

Reincarnated_sóul · Answer

Lack of girls interest in him!

Asad1ONE1 · Answer

Same reasons girls lose interest

8string · Answer

the real question is why do women lose interest.

Anonymous · Answer

They blew their load and they be gone.

ninjajames_IX · Answer

Definitely having my time wasted.

pravind · Answer

That's due to time and interest

QamarZaman · Answer

why girls lose interest?

Anonymous · Answer

We have had the pussy.

Anonymous · Answer

Loss of attraction.

Anonymous · Answer

losing interest in what?

Lumberman53 · Answer

Boring

disgustingweebtrash · Answer

They don't

thegr8lion · Answer

Bored

fronted · Answer

Boredom

Anonymous · Answer

Oh well 😔

Anonymous · Answer

They lose feelings

Anonymous · Answer

Too many mind games

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