Whats wrong with telling women you just dont want a relationship? Why do guys lie?

[Anonymous]

They lie about wanting a relationship then hit it and quit or just go ghost

[ohsheeT]

Because most guys are liars , cheaters , manipulators , just to get what they want just to get their d*ick wet. And the funny part about it is, every time the one does this.\n More and more girls start to understand who guys really are and what they are all about to the point where they don't want to believe anything that they say. So even though it is totally wrong for being that type of a person and how much pain they cause people , but it all comes back to them maybe not like the girl would want to see , but it does come back to them

[AgentG111]

What guys are you trying to be with? Players or liars and idiots?

I'll tell you straight up down with fake women who are looking for a house car and money and someone to take care of them and their kids.

Not for me, if you want to date fine but I'll tell you my requirements and it's up to you if you want to meet them or have some counters to mine.

Only a few things I'm ridged on. So willing to listen and possibly compromise.

Life's short live it up! Don't waste time on fool boys.

[4ngelic]

they lie because they know it will much harder for them to get sex if they're honest. some women like sleeping around with randoms, but most women really only want to sleep with boyfriends or to be boyfriends

[Nikki1989]

What @ohsheeT said.

Most men lie constantly, and the ones that don't, well, how can you tell... really?

[ohsheeT]

Yeah, if you're just starting to go out somebody can you want to know who they are asking questions that, you know are true and then ask them questions that you don't know and watch their pattern, how we act, how they look, everything is pattern recognition tone of voice eye contact. Body language

I think one of the most important things for a woman to do is listen and understand with the person to saying and at the same time, watch what their eyes are saying their body language is saying because all 3 of those are talking to you all at the same time, they're telling the truth, all those will work together if they're not, they're all going to be talking different languages. A different story.

Don't accuse them, don't start anything, learn learn them first. Let them prove to you who they are, somebody that's lied to. You won't shut up somebody that's telling you. The truth is just going to give you short little answers. Nothing else because he has nothing to prove the person that is lying will get loud. voice will change the person who's lying sometimes just kind of snaps, and how dare you say this blah blah blah, they get angry\n The one telling you the truth might have a little smile on their face, and they're not going to say much.

[ohsheeT]

And what I meant by that , when I said most guys lie to you , that's basically when they don't care anything about you, they're just trying to get what they want.\nIt's that type of guy that lies to you if the guy really , really likes you , he's not going to lie to you at all

And when it's over , he will pull you in close , look into your eyes and say , look , i'm not gonna lie to you he might pull you in even deeper , hold on tight , but when he walks away he will get 3 or 4 steps away from you. And he will say huh
What. Yes I told you those pants make you butt look big he\nWill try not to laugh. He will turn around quickly and start walking away l o l

That's\nHis laughing , he might turn around in apologize and he only did it because he was hurt that you didn't believe in him , it would be something stupid anyway. But funny

But guys , that really like you , they also understand that the very first life that's the start of the end , so they're not gonna lie

[Asker]

@ohsheeT thank you

[Anonymous]

Men often lie about their dating intentions because they view deception as a lower-cost path to achieving immediate goals, such as maintaining sexual access without the inconvenience of commitment or avoiding the emotional discomfort of a direct confrontation.

[MontBlanc]

There’s nothing wrong with honestly saying you don’t want a relationship , in fact, honesty is better than misleading someone.

Guys sometimes lie because they want attention, avoid conflict, or fear rejection.

But dishonesty only creates confusion and mistrust.

Being upfront shows respect for both yourself and the other person.

[Berethor]

Might count as rape by deception, they know that the woman don't agree if they tell the truth.

[Anonymous]

For the same reason women lie. They could just say, "I have no real interest in you I just like your attention. So I'm going to keep flirting with you but I have absolutely no intention of ever f***ing you".😆

Just accept it hun. Use your head and learn to read the signs. we do.🤦‍♂️

[Anonymous]

Because chances are she’s not going to be good w just getting plowed then left behind. That’s why. Both genders do it. Women use men for resources when they have no intention of being w him. Especially the ones she puts in the friend zone.

[spartan55]

Or they did want a relationship, but you turned out to be batshit crazy and they changed their mind.

[Pterodon]

I’m howling. I love this answer and this is more truthful than not

[dudeinohio]

Afraid the woman would freak out if you say you aren't feeling it. Had that happen to me. I came up with the "i got called into work " excuse. After awhile, she dumped me. Problem solved.

[LC75LC71]

Yeah, like women let that go all nice and easy..

[Anonymous]

Same reason women lie about it, to find your answers one need only look in the mirror at your own gender.

[Anonymous]

They are using you. Both genders do it.

[Ariesman81]

He probably does. Just not with you.

[Vegasrunner]

Its because woman can't handle the truth.

[jahaims]

Obviously to get pussy

[zombiewoof]

Gotta be honest